@Barnfred 55. As everyone else has said don’t feel guilty about having a good day, if anyone deserves it you do. Enjoy the boat trip - you have been invited because they want you there. Anyone who thinks I have an endearing sense of humour is great in my book, that could change if you met me though.lol. I saw a piece once on a Channel Island called “Les Ecrehous “ , more or less a desert island. Would love to go, I’m no traveller though, I’ve only left England once - I had a week in Wales when I was seven.?