But the burden of responsibility falls on those who don't like the direction in which we are headed to offer up an alternative solution and convince us of its suitability. That hasn't happened has it. So, in that regard, yes, the ball is in your court. You can't just complain about something without offering a solution - which in this case would also have to respect a 17.4 million democratic majority. I am happy that we are headed to Brexit - despite May. Many on this forum are concerned either by brexit itself or its affect on N Ireland. So, if you don't like where you feel we are headed, what I was saying was that instead of just criticising what is happening and which, quite frankly, neither you nor I can stop, why don't you (or more accurately, your elected representatives) consider and action an alternative.
I am not sure I can explain it more simply.