I agree. But if we are part of the EU then we are part of the conversation. The option on the table was not, remain/remain but try and reform the EU or Brexit. It was Brexit or remain.How about remain and accept the EU as it currently is or remain and fight for reform to make it more economically efficient.
We need to remain in the EU but I definitely believe the EU need to change.
It could have been remain, remain but push reform, leave with no deal, leave with a deal that has been negotiated over 2 years, leave with Norway +, leave with a Canada style deal, leave in the customs union but nothing else etc etc.
The options on the leave side were much less clear than on the remain.