You are impossible to talk to because you keep playing the victim here. You claim you want to discuss issues, but then shrink from actually doing so, instead self-righteously claiming you're somehow above the fray and that I'm merely being egotistical and point-scoring. It's all very weird, as you can't seem to engage in what you desire to be engaged in, but are completely happy to write things like "bully boy hat" and "...didn't have the nads..." and that other members here are "naive."
As to Russophobia, you said, without specifying a subject, the following: "The entire unnecessary Russiaphobia going on atm is driven by propaganda/ news/ whatever you want to call it and its wrong." As no subject was specified and this was a stand-alone paragraph I was assuming you were talking about people here on GOT taking pleasure in the suffering of Russian citizens.
The media hasn't drummed up that much support for a no-fly zone as far as I can tell, though some politicians have called for it. The Guardian just published a long open letter by various people coming out against a no-fly zone. Support among US citizens to enter the war or send troops to Ukraine is consistently low rather than high.