Some Help!

[GhostOfDixie]

I agree, I do. Just think that whore is a strong word. Its not like she took part in a gangbang, and as Jon said they weren't even together. Perhaps she realised that Jon was the person she wanted and that's why she made contact.

 

[Dylan]

Agreed... which is the reason for tomorrows letter... im not the type just to walk away and not have the decency to explain !!! i will tell her how i feel obviously, and clearly i hope she will realise what she is doing, but if not... your option sounds the best !!! only way to deal with things !

Why should you explain???? She has [Poor language removed] up. You DO NOT explain yourself to her. When she realises she has lost something good then she will explain herself to you.

 

[GrandOldTeam]

I agree, I do. Just think that whore is a strong word. Its not like she took part in a gangbang, and as Jon said they weren't even together. Perhaps she realised that Jon was the person she wanted and that's why she made contact.

Cruel to be kind

We cant comment on the girl really because we don't know her, but from what i've heard, i wouldn't give her a second glance.

 

[jon_efc]

I agree, I do. Just think that whore is a strong word. Its not like she took part in a gangbang, and as Jon said they weren't even together. Perhaps she realised that Jon was the person she wanted and that's why she made contact.

thats exactly what she said !!! ... and since she has been real nice, until the text about her friend telling her about the phone call last night !!

 

[GhostOfDixie]

Why should you explain???? She has [Poor language removed] up. You DO NOT explain yourself to her. When she realises she has lost something good then she will explain herself to you.

That I agree with.

 

[jon_efc]

Why should you explain???? She has [Poor language removed] up. You DO NOT explain yourself to her. When she realises she has lost something good then she will explain herself to you.

dunno mate, think it will put my mind 2 rest knowing i have said my piece !!! because so far i havent really had the chance !

 

[SuitsBlue]

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[Dylan]

thats exactly what she said !!! ... and since she has been real nice, until the text about her friend telling her about the phone call last night !!

Jon. Please. Stop. Worrying. About. What. She. Wants.

Based on what I have read, you are not the bad guy, and shouldn't be treated like the bad guy. So STOP acting like the bad guy. Tell her where to get off for [Poor language removed] with you like this.

 

[Dylan]

dunno mate, think it will put my mind 2 rest knowing i have said my piece !!! because so far i havent really had the chance !

Say your piece, but don't explain yourself. Under no circumstances explain yourself. Then she knows she has you around her little finger.

 

[GhostOfDixie]

Well Jon you know what I feel. Just go away for a while, leave her the letter and find your head. If she chases you, then problem solved in my opinion.

Guys I know infidelity is a trecharous thing, but love is a strong emotion and its not so easy to walk away from someone you love.

 

[jon_efc]

Jon. Please. Stop. Worrying. About. What. She. Wants.

Based on what I have read, you are not the bad guy, and shouldn't be treated like the bad guy. So STOP acting like the bad guy. Tell her where to get off for [Poor language removed] with you like this.

i am listening .. i promise you !!! but its not all going in yet, although it is slowly !!

i am going to write the letter, thats something i have set my self on... i love her simple as... and whatever the situation i think it is worth that last say !!! and i know you wont agree with that..

i am going to tell her how i feel, the situation and how i feel i am being treated, and then im going to call the shots and explain that i am going away etc... if she comes and tried to get in touch, then i will listen, but i will not be jumping head first in again !!!

i do feel like the bad guy, and i know i am not !!! but im also not perfect...

and no i have never cheated on her !!!

 

[SuitsBlue]

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[jon_efc]

Say your piece, but don't explain yourself. Under no circumstances explain yourself. Then she knows she has you around her little finger.

how do you mean about explaining myself?? just so i can look out for what to say etc!!

 

[GhostOfDixie]

jon has had the best most honest part of my intellect.

i wont fight him in an unwinnable war of words.

he will either succeed or lose his personal battle for his relationship off his own back.

i already regret being so vociferous in this thread, i rarely like to speak with such feeling born from my own experience.

you can lead a horse to water but you cannot make it drink

wow you are drunk.

 

[SuitsBlue]

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