Some Help!

[GhostOfDixie]

how many second chances.

suits is done.

Someone stick a fork in him

 

[jon_efc]

jon has had the best most honest part of my intellect.

i wont fight him in an unwinnable war of words.

he will either succeed or lose his personal battle for his relationship off his own back.

i already regret being so vociferous in this thread, i rarely like to speak with such feeling born from my own experience.

you can lead a horse to water but you cannot make it drink

thanks suits and dont worry !!! i would probably say the same if it was the other way around, but what you have got to remember is that, when we are together , we are simply awesome !! and i wont even comment on the sex (WOW !!!)... i love her to bits, and i do know she does me too..

thing is.. although she might be doing this to me, a part of me kind of hopes it will pass etc... i believe if you respect someone they will repsect you too, especially when you both love each other, but i also know this is not the case lots of the time !!!

remember, you are seeing face value on paper.. but she is not all she is coming accross to be , either that or i have rose tinted glasses lol...

no seriously, she isnt a bad person... and this discussion has got a little out of hand ... but she still isnt being quite fair !!

thus the letter and time away !!

 

[GhostOfDixie]

where you going to?

 

[SuitsBlue]

N / A

 

[jon_efc]

how many second chances.

suits is done.

lol suits... i have never ever given anyone a second chance... but i have this girl.. cause she is something special...

the kiss the other night in all fairness isnt my business, although it was wrong and hurts, she wasnt with me.. and at the time she said she didnt want me at all.. but it made her realise she does !!! so maybe its not such a bad thing, in a [Poor language removed] up way !!!

 

[Dylan]

how do you mean about explaining myself?? just so i can look out for what to say etc!!

DON'T say stuff that explain your perceived deficiencies.

Just tell her how you feel about her, not about stuff you may or may not have done. Don't get drawn into a debate, because you will not win, you will end up explaining your life away to her putting her back in control. Basically, go in, say what you want to say and leave. No discussions at this point.

 

[jon_efc]

busiest topic ever on GOT at 2am lol...

i think i have certainly got my name in on the GOT crew lol

 

[GhostOfDixie]

could be worse, i could call him a cock and say im ignoring him

okey:

im not looking for a tangle ghost, and im not going to suggest you have dropped in my estimation either, what i will say is, that maybe not all people are lucky enough to find a better half that makes them a whole.

a few beers or otherwise, i cant see what i have posted that deserves what i see as your sneers.

if you can enlighten me, them great, if not, then i wont beg you.

I'm not sneering mate, honestly. Gone past it. Life is way too short to bicker about stupid stuff.

 

[jon_efc]

where you going to?

dont know yet mate, might go down south first and stay with some family before i sort something out...

need to see... but ill miss my mates like mad !!

 

[jon_efc]

DON'T say stuff that explain your perceived deficiencies.

Just tell her how you feel about her, not about stuff you may or may not have done. Don't get drawn into a debate, because you will not win, you will end up explaining your life away to her putting her back in control. Basically, go in, say what you want to say and leave. No discussions at this point.

nice one dylan !!!

 

[SuitsBlue]

N / A

 

[Dylan]

When did the break up occur? When did the 'kiss' occur?

 

[GhostOfDixie]

Its a tangled mess. Sometimes the best way to unwravel the headphones from your pocket is to just snap then throw them away and go and get another.

Here endeth the lesson.

 

[jon_efc]

someone point out to him that the above is exactly what wives with physically abusive husbands think.

you cant change a person, just find the one that is right for you and vice versa.

horse? water? drink?

deja vu all over again.

i did also say i know thats not the case most of the time.. but thats the way i see life...

dunno, just think if i give her the respect and explanation through a letter as to my feelings, then maybe she will respect me..

i know... no gaurantee.. i really do!! but hey ... nothing to lose now!

 

[Dylan]

i believe if you respect someone they will repsect you too

She needs to earn your respect. If I met her right now, she would get no respect from me. Respect isn't given......it is earned. Make her earn it back.