Some Help!

[jon_efc]

so what's the problem then?

problem is it, as suits says.. we both now need to believe its going to be the way we say it is going to be !!!

and suits... dunno what to say... cause i dont think i can agree with things yet.. im not in that place ... lol!!

think im still in the sucker punch land !!

 

[GhostOfDixie]

doesn't mean she's a whore. A mistake is a mistake.

 

[jon_efc]

Agreed mate. John if she done it once, she'd do it again.

As for the 'she was drunk' excuse, thats no excuse in my books.

but we werent together danny... so it is an excuse !!! she didnt even have to tell me.. but she did !

 

[Dylan]

I am going to have to agree with what suits said. Even the way he said it, it is harsh, but fair.

Jon, impartial observers here, going off of what you have written. Move on. It will be a whole lot better for you. You don't have to be balls deep in another girl to get over it, just get out and do something. Delete her from your phone, remove her from your email, block her emails, remove her from messenger/myspace/facebook.

Remove her from your life for a while and get on with YOUR life. She is stringing you on, treating you like a puppy-dog who doesn't know better. Don't give her that satisfaction.

 

[GhostOfDixie]

I agree that you may need to move on, just think that calling her a whore is a little unfair.

I've learnt recently to be more careful who I insult or talk about, so this is the new me.

She's still a person, and a person that Jon loves.

 

[GrandOldTeam]

I agree that you may need to move on, just think that calling her a whore is a little unfair.

Why? I am tired and haven't read the thread too well but she certainly sounds like it? In bed with another lad at a house party?

Or am i getting the complete wrong end of the stick?

 

[Dylan]

but we werent together danny... so it is an excuse !!! she didnt even have to tell me.. but she did !

Jon......a couple of days man! She is stringing you along. Lets go over the timeline.

Break up.......kisses another guy, sleeps in same bed......calls you up wanting reconcilliation...says aforementioned kiss was terrible.......here's the terms for my limited company

 

[GhostOfDixie]

Well from what Jon has said its not as bad as it sounds,

 

[jon_efc]

I am going to have to agree with what suits said. Even the way he said it, it is harsh, but fair.

Jon, impartial observers here, going off of what you have written. Move on. It will be a whole lot better for you. You don't have to be balls deep in another girl to get over it, just get out and do something. Delete her from your phone, remove her from your email, block her emails, remove her from messenger/myspace/facebook.

Remove her from your life for a while and get on with YOUR life. She is stringing you on, treating you like a puppy-dog who doesn't know better. Don't give her that satisfaction.

Agreed... which is the reason for tomorrows letter... im not the type just to walk away and not have the decency to explain !!! i will tell her how i feel obviously, and clearly i hope she will realise what she is doing, but if not... your option sounds the best !!! only way to deal with things !

 

[SuitsBlue]

N / A

 

[GhostOfDixie]

i can only comment (to monty) on the info i have been given.

i have had to take a kick in the teeth before with regards women, it taught me a valuable lesson.

a lesson im not interested in learning again.

trust and respect are earned, someone willing to play around with your feelings doesnt deserve a second glance.

easy to say, but whilst in the midst of it, difficult to adhere to.

lifes too short to allow piss takers to waste your time.

you can only comment to Monty?

 

[GrandOldTeam]

i can only comment (to monty) on the info i have been given.

i have had to take a kick in the teeth before with regards women, it taught me a valuable lesson.

a lesson im not interested in learning again.

trust and respect are earned, someone willing to play around with your feelings doesnt deserve a second glance.

easy to say, but whilst in the midst of it, difficult to adhere to.

lifes too short to allow piss takers to waste your time.

Spot on.

 

[Dylan]

Why? I am tired and haven't read the thread too well but she certainly sounds like it? In bed with another lad at a house party?

Or am i getting the complete wrong end of the stick?

I don't think so. The only reason I would call her a whore/slut is to not hurt Jon's feelings, which are strong. But sometimes it takes strong words to make somebody realise a person isn't right for her, which is why I agree with the way Suits has worded his posts in here.

 

[jon_efc]

Why? I am tired and haven't read the thread too well but she certainly sounds like it? In bed with another lad at a house party?

Or am i getting the complete wrong end of the stick?

kind of the wrong end of the stick.. she kissed the lad... and she was staying at the house...

she slept in a double bed, her one side.. her mate in the middle and the lad the other side.. and she said nothing happened and she didnt want it too

 

[GrandOldTeam]

Who needs Kilroy and Jeremy Kyle?