I'm sure the Palestinians regard the Israeli government as terrorists if you go by the actual definition of terrorism. Nelson Mandela was considered a terrorist at one point and spent 27 years in jail for it. You can't apply the same rule to the oppressed and the oppressors because they are operating under very different conditions.
You mention the Iron Dome and the situation Israel would be in without it. But firstly, the have it and secondly the situation wouldn't be what it is without it as they wouldn't be able to carry on smacking Palestine down if they were having the same number of citizens killed as Palestine are. A ceasefire would be found much quicker if the militarily playing field were more even. Israel having the Iron Dome and the backing of the USA means they can basically do what they want and escalate things to whatever level they want.
Not knowing the answer doesn't mean people should just sit back and not talk about it. You yourself have done exactly what you are complaining about. It's a horrendous situation and the more people talking about it brings attention to it and hopefully leads us to a quicker resolution of this specific situation. And then hopefully leads to meaningful talks to try and find a long lasting, stable peace.
I don't dispute that. As I said, my post wasn't to defend the actions of the Israeli government or forces over the past few weeks or past decades that this has been going on. I'm also not saying people shouldn't talk about it. But the whole bandwagon jumping is what annoys me, when it's treated like it's black and white - and it isn't a black and white situation.
Are you comparing Nelson Mandela to Hamas? A man, and movement, fighting for racial equality, and an extremist Islamist organisation? Yes, I can apply different rules I think.
The point of having the Iron Dome is clearly because of this threat. Now, whether that threat would be there at all if Israel took a more reasonable approach is obviously what we don't know but hopefully will know in the future - they shouldn't need, or want, to have something like that. But just saying 'oh it's fine if Hamas fire rockets, because Isreal have the defences' - as you've done there, or at least implied - isn't exactly the answer either is it?
I hope there can be peace and I'll reiterate again, I think what the Isreali government do and has done is horrid, evil, whatever you want to call it. But I don't think Hamas would be the best solution for peace in Palestine either... Now the answer is definitely not Israel, but in my mind that doesn't make the solution an extremist organisation.