So if Ireland and the U.K. are the ones affected by the border, and if they both happened to agree a way forward, you would be happy for Slovenia ,Slovakia or Cyprus on behalf of the EU to veto a deal would you......
You seem to disregard the fact that the Republic of Ireland is part of the European Union and this is a land border with a non EU country and the EU, so all EU countries are effected.
The majority of people in Northern Ireland voted the remain within the EU and polls indicate that the majority of Northern Irish want the backstop.
If the Conservative government wasn't propped up by the DUP I doubt we would be having this problem. With the Labour Party now going for remain and the Conservatives for leaving the only sensible course of action is for a general election so that one party or a coalition can get a working majority and move forward.
I understand the frustration of those who voted leave last time and that they will make the point that their will has been ignored but that was then and a general election would be the latest expression of the will of the people.
we are in extraordinary times and extraordinary measures are required.