The thing you said is like saying "FFS EVERY TIME I GET A PAYRAISE AT WORK THE FIGURE I PAY FOR TAXES GOES UP!!!". Well... yeah? That's exactly how it works, yano?
In the case of the EU, you still had the lowest percentage of GDP set amongst the "powerhouse" nations, but I went at length at that about 50 pages ago and got the classic reply - "yeah but Leave won so that'll shut you up". Then claims of "you just don't know how debate works you tit I know better without being informed thanks" are aimed at me when I point it out, ironically, but forget about that I guess.
And for the "THEY JUST WANT A DIVORCE BILL" shout - honestly, they don't want much considering how much they've given you. What they want is for you to cover an infinitesimally small part of the projected spending that you would've been a part in were you to stay, just like you'd do outside politics if, say, hypothetically you and your mate wanted to buy a car to drive it together, but then he wants to stop paying anything but still using the car every so often?
Predicted answers to these questions/points - "but leave won so shut up", "no mate", "then why come the remoaners <insert something completely different here>", "IZ JUST A RIPOFF LAD OPEN YER EYES", "it wuz Brussels"... guesses for anything else guys?