Martin Alvito
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I’m not getting dragged in to another debate of men telling women how they should feel and behave so this is all I’ll say on the subject.
You equated feminism (a movement that has historically sought to highlight and overthrow a patriarchal and unjust society) to incels (a movement that largely appears to hate themselves and women and pretty much everything else)
You’ve had a bit of a mare here, that largely seems to stem from an unhealthy hatred of your ex.
If telling the truth is a mare, then it's a mare.
What I am saying is that the movement of feminism harbors some people with exactly the same hatred of men, and pretty much everything else. It's not just my ex. I don't hate my ex. I pity her. I am angry about the injustices that the legal system perpetrates on both sides of the fence.
I'm not telling women how they should feel. I'm telling them that, if they want to get the results they want, they need to act differently than they currently are acting. There's an enormous difference between the two statements. I am entitled to tell someone that their actions result in injustice. I am not disallowed from telling a woman that because I am a man. It is not 'mansplaining'. It's just the truth.
To be direct, feminism is creating injustices in the legal system out of women's fear of men. Some of those fears are justified, as you and others have pointed out from what the media reports on. It doesn't follow that we should create those injustices, because they will inevitably lead to a backlash. Those injustices create people like me that feel the way we do about the feminist movement.
Feminism also creates terms like 'mansplaining' that enable the worst of women to scoff at the truths men have to tell, rather than just the ones that deserve to be scoffed at. That one's going to come back to bite them as well.
Ohhhh Martin. Feminist thought has a long, complex and multifaceted history. Radical Feminists did indeed seek to live a life free of men. However most want equality and opportunity.
For a guy who likes to try and avoid priors and employ critical thinking, that's quite loaded stuff.
That's not a prior. The empirical evidence provided the existence proof to me beyond any shadow of a doubt, by way of the weak axiom of revealed preference. I'm not saying that all feminists are like that, or even that most of them are. I'm saying that the ones that are like that are out there.
I agree that it is very loaded stuff. I'm not afraid to say it.
