Messymascot's faith in humanity and ginger safe haven

Was doing some e mail tiding up earlier, and came across several exchanges with Rob, the vicar who conducted Nik's funeral service last November. Was deleting them, until I saw the one with the final draft/copy of her funeral service. I have kept a hard copy, obvs, but just couldnt delete her online one.

I think many in this thread will understand, even though its pretty daft.
I kept mine too if that helps
 
Fred update.

He isn't well. "drifting in and out of sleep " so undoutably the right decision not to come. Anyway he wanted to see the garden so I overcame my tech aversion and managed to send him a video of the garden with commentary too.

Now I've started to drink the wine I thought we would drink together and later me and Mrs J will eat his pizza . Heartless aren't we.

Get well soon Fred.
Still feeling pretty crap mate. But I've taken on some fluids and eaten that sandwich. Still drifting.
 
I actually use Cals phone now. Still programmed with her name. Comforting somehow
Get it completely. That connection will be there always.

I never had a father. Raised by my Mum and my Aunt. Really really happy childhood.

On a down day I really do hear my Aunt’s voice encouraging me. I feel down, go for a walk and I hear her voice narrating the scenery. I walk with my Radio 1 earphones and she points out the birds to me.

Sound mental I know but I miss her voice.
 
I actually use Cals phone now. Still programmed with her name. Comforting somehow
I was talking with the missus and said that because of Covid we now have a much lower resistance to any virus even the common cold or influenza so the chances are that is what you have picked up .The symptoms will be stronger because your body is struggling more than it would have before .
Love the phone tit bit Fred but I would have guessed . Stay strong that man .
 
I was talking with the missus and said that because of Covid we now have a much lower resistance to any virus even the common cold or influenza so the chances are that is what you have picked up .The symptoms will be stronger because your body is struggling more than it would have before .
Love the phone tit bit Fred but I would have guessed . Stay strong that man .
Also, because I'm quite isolated where I live and don't mix socially a lot, I think I've only had one bout of illness in the last 4 years or so. When I was working I'd pick up 3 or 4 a year easily.
 
Morning all. I did sleep pretty well last night given I had a lot of dozing during the day yesterday. And first signs this morning are that I don't feel quite as achey as yesterday and the headache isn't half as bad.

I was planning to visit Cal's and my brothers graves today but its a good 2 mile walk so I think I'll put it off until later in the week. I have plenty of down time in the mornings.

Thinking I might pop next door to Dobbies and have a bowl of soup later(my go to when I'm feeling poorly). At least I'm thinking about food which wasn't on my agenda at all yesterday. So hopefully this is just a bout of man flu, just a bit more severe than I'm used to as Blue said.
 

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