Yeah, that's what I originally thought. Agree the majority in NI would need to be in favour first.
To an outsider like me, Irish Unity is an ideology that will come with an initial cost, financially, culturally and logistically. Same with Scottish Independence if that ever get's voted in. Do you not think there are some parallels with those Brexit voters who are prepared to suffer some hardships in the cause of sovereignty?
You could make broad comparisons but they would be two completely different situations imo. The UK has knowingly made a deal that has made itself worse off than it was before. Not even sure if that has ever happened before in history. Even the most optimistic of Brexiteer admit there will be short to medium term pain and that they have no idea if it will pan out in the long term or, in their language, "wait and see".
Northern Ireland staying in the EU would be of net benefit to them. Tangible benefits too, the type you could spell out and quantify that go beyond saying "sovereignty" and "control our destiny" repeatedly.
If you're not from Ireland, it's hard to fathom how much we have yielded from being part of the EU, but we are worlds away from the country we used to be, and that's a very good thing in most of the areas that matter. The EU is far from perfect, and so is Ireland. But to say that we are better off than we were before we joined, and that it is largely from being a member state, would be an enormous understatement.
Plus, I think we're governed far better. Though our lot are a useless bunch at the best of times, I would take them a million times over the absolute car crash you have in Westminster at the moment. Our politicians don't openly and actively work against our interests for the most part and they cave to public pressure easily. That isn't always ideal, mind you. But they're at least accountable for their actions. From over here, it looks like Boris could take a dump in the middle of parliament and Pete would call it a powerful statement of freedom that has the EU quaking in its boots.