I don’t really get what they want.... do they want to earn off his status? If so accept the scrutiny and BS that comes with. Do they want to keep out of news? In which case stop going on TV with knobheads like Corden and playing on your Royal Heritage.
I get she / they have had a hard time in the media, but there does seem to be a bit of wanting their cake and eating it.
Phillips & Tindle manage ok, even Prince Edward manages to keep out of the news, fairly sure if they wanted a low profile they could have one.