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My dad had severe COPD in 2007. Stress mixed with smoking and drinking and a viral infection he caught in Spain.
It was bad. I was only 12 at the time but I remember the morning he went into hospital (after we'd arrived back from Spain) he was crawling on the hall rug when the ambulance came. Looking back I probably didn't realise how close I was to losing him but thankfully he made it through.
Not trying to take away from either of your situations like and while I can't understand how it feels I do have that experience second hand. It's awful.
Glad to hear you're on the mend slightly at least Toast.