The problem she has is that doing this - quitting the land of the Muslims and returning to the lands of unbelief - is to her and the people she went to live with an act of apostasy; they (IS) executed a lot of people for even attempting it.
And yet she wants to , whilst still endorsing the state she lived in and does so away in a refugee camp . To me It’s far from an easy conversation , I was taught empathy and compassion but I find it difficult to have to much in this situation. Of course she can turn her life around and that’ll be fantastic but I’m not convinced she should do so without repercussion . However saying that , what even should that be I don’t know .