In this particular game, there's nothing to say England wouldn't have scored the winning goal in a different matter, say from a corner in the 115th minute. Or maybe extra time would have ended 2-2, in which case I don't know if it would have gone to penalties or a replay. In other words, it's all conjecture.
As for VAR today, I'm all for it. And to address the amount of time needed for reviews, I like the suggestion of 30-minute halves, with an actual game clock stopping every time the ball is not in play (video reviews, going out of bounds for throw-ins, subs, going back to the centre circle after goals, etc.). There would be no need for the fourth official to hold up a board signifying the minimum amount of time added on as the referee would simply let any realistic scoring opportunity (corner, counterattack, whatever) play itself out before then blowing the whistle. No more John Terry goals in the eighth minute of five minutes' added time.
And don't call me Shirley.