In all seriousness, I'm a white middle aged straight man and nobody has ever asked me to apologise for any sort of historical wrong. The only thing anybody has ever (personally) asked me for is to shut up and listen for a change and try to understand things from their perspective and experience. That has, honestly, led me to question a lot of things about myself and my outlook. It's never too late to learn.
That works two ways my friend yet its only ever a one way road with a lot of things in life.
Take the transgender topic - in the UK there are approx 220,000 people who identify as trans or non binary oot of a population of near 69 million people.
Now that other 68.78 million people are constantly told they have to listen to a group of 220k and respect what they wish to be called, known as, identify as etc. yet when have those people asked the 68.78 million people how they feel on the subject? be it trans competing in female competitions, using the opposite sexs toilets/changies etc.
Now my personal opinion on that particular issue is that I have no ill feeling towards trans folk or anyone for that matter- I judge people by their character and actions regardless of their colour, sex, gender whatever else however I do believe gender dysphoria is a mental disorder/illness yet we don't treat it as such and I think lowering the age of transitioning to 16 who lets be honest no 16 yr old has any real life experience, are neither physically or mentally mature, many wont have explored sex neither has their brain fully developed so for me its completely wrong and likely political pandering to LGBTQ pressure groups.
So my point here really is that Everyone's opinion is valid when we all live and contribute to a working society but in practice that isn't how things work in our supposed "democracy" When the masses are told what to say, think, do and act by the minority.