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[noharmdone]

I know but he's hardly gonna be attracted to an Everton forum is he..

If I was being nasty to my stepson, Id want to know if he was telling anyone..
And Id find out by looking at what he was looking at.

 

[Pat's Van]

bad times man, it's how you deal with it that's important, stay strong mate

 

[FTY]

like I said mate if you ever want to talk message me whenever my best mate had issues with his arl fella growing up and its not good

Thanks mate, will do

 

[FTY]

FTY, that is not in any way acceptable. Have you spoke to your mum about it?

If you ever want to chat in regards to this or not, just inbox me.

Yeah she's usually there when it happens but she can't do anything really, and really appreciate it, thanks

 

[chicoazul]

Difficult situation and I've experienced it to mate. Can't offer any advice better than has been given. You've got some thinking to do but thinking is never a good thing on a drunken head.

Get some sleep and ponder after the weekend

 

[ijjysmith]

If I was being nasty to my stepson, Id want to know if he was telling anyone..
And Id find out by looking at what he was looking at.

FTY - NHD is right mate.

Go careful. We don't want anything to get worse.

 

[FTY]

If I was being nasty to my stepson, Id want to know if he was telling anyone..
And Id find out by looking at what he was looking at.

That's true tbf, will bear that in mind.

 

[BlueLlama]

This is badly gash mate. Remember this:

-It is not your fault
-He is an abusive coward.
- No matter what you have done, he is an adult and he should be showing you how to better yourself not battering you.
- Sadly he won't stop without good reason. If you have any type of injury I suggets photgraphing them - if you ever do want the authorities involved they will be invaluable evidence.

Good luck with all this mate -like others have said if you want to inbox me go ahead - I have a great deal of experience dealing with people like him.

 

[Azzurri]

How hard is he mate? Would it be possible to just lamp seven shades out of him next time he starts?

 

[FTY]

Lads (and HSD) I really really can't thank you enough for all the advice and support you've given me with this, it means so much

 

[FTY]

How hard is he mate? Would it be possible to just lamp seven shades out of him next time he starts?

He's about twice my size mate, no chance of that happening.

 

[Marco Materazzi]

I don't think physically fighting back would help cool down the situation, I think it would make it worse I wouldn't risk it.

 

[scratchnsurf]

Nah we moved away from Ormskirk a couple of years ago, and all my family there, a bit isolated tbh.

Phone them. E mail them. They would want to know.

 

[chicoazul]

Two good bits of advice from Marco and Scratchers there.

Call them tomorrow mate.

 

[Dell Boy]

This is badly gash mate. Remember this:

-It is not your fault
-He is an abusive coward.
- No matter what you have done, he is an adult and he should be showing you how to better yourself not battering you.
- Sadly he won't stop without good reason. If you have any type of injury I suggets photgraphing them - if you ever do want the authorities involved they will be invaluable evidence.

Good luck with all this mate -like others have said if you want to inbox me go ahead - I have a great deal of experience dealing with people like him.

There's some really good advice there mate. The situation is just terrible but it will get better.

FTY - I'm going through this exact same crap at the moment with my 16 yr old nephew.

Everyone thought the step dad was out of order but never seen it with my own eyes until we were all at their house a month ago and I overheard something going on in a bedroom when I was on my way up to the loo. The stepdad had my nephew in a choke hold like you see on American wrestling so without giving it a thought
I tore them apart and knocked the step dad spark out.

Cue absolute mayhem and the police coming for me (my wife and her sister believed the c*** that I'd attacked him unprovoked).

Last few weeks have been really crap but with the police involved it obviously all became very serious. my nephew has left home and all his emails/Facebook to friends and girlfriends with pics of bruises have come to light.

Not entirely sure how this helps you but with it all on the open this thug of a stepdad is exposed for what he is - a cowardly bully. He's going to face serous charges and will get the treatment he needs I hope.

In the meantime my nephew is safe and can see it was never his fault. My marriage is probably over but hey ho in the wider scheme of things it takes these rough times to really see what's what.

At the end of the day you're a kid and whatever happens a big adult just cannot do that.

Find someone you trust and tell them.

Good luck