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[ijjysmith]

FTY this is not good.

Is there a teacher or someone you could confide in? Like a decent teacher not a nobbish one.

They will be able to put you in touch with people who can actually help sort the situation. It might involve the police though but you shouldnt have to be in that sort of situation.

As you may or may not know mate, my mrs is a social worker. If you want I can have a word and get advice off her of you don't mind me discussing this with her? I imagine she'll say what I said though mate.

 

[scratchnsurf]

I know but I'd always hoped it'd be different for him with him being his real Dad, also it started for me when I was 5 and my little brother's 9 now. I dunno though, massive dilemma.

What other family do you have near you? You're not whinging or attention seeking, your step dad is bang out of order and if there's an adult you trust who can help you you must talk to them.

 

[scratchnsurf]

Thanks mate, really appreciate it

She's torn I guess, wants to defend me but has to suppport her husband doesn't she? The only person that I seem to have on my side is my Dad who lives miles away.

Does your dad know this is going on? If he doesnt, he needs to.

 

[micknick]

Is there a chance your step dad might come on here?

 

[FTY]

If you are still at school you need to ask to speak to the designated person for safeguarding. I realise that's a big step but this problem won't go away and if you have other brothers and sisters you need to think about them also. Your school will have procedures in place to help you.

I've left school now mate, but there was noone like that there anyway, it was useful for that sort of thing.

how old r you mate

16 mate.

 

[scratchnsurf]

I've left school now mate, but there was noone like that there anyway, it was useful for that sort of thing.

16 mate.

Every school has to have a safeguarding officer. It's a legal obligation. You just don't know who it is. They will help you, even if you have left. Go to the school office and ask who it is.

 

[Gwladys St. Glory]

Sorry you're having to grow up early in certain ways, mate. This "man's" behaviour would seem to suggest maybe he was treated the same way when he was your age. I know your instinct is to fight back but his replies to it just seem to escalate things. Most of all, don't take it as a way to handle things.

 

[FTY]

FTY this is not good.

Is there a teacher or someone you could confide in? Like a decent teacher not a nobbish one.

They will be able to put you in touch with people who can actually help sort the situation. It might involve the police though but you shouldnt have to be in that sort of situation.

As you may or may not know mate, my mrs is a social worker. If you want I can have a word and get advice off her of you don't mind me discussing this with her? I imagine she'll say what I said though mate.

I've left now but I've been through that process before but I've always decided against it because of my little brother. Yeah that'd be great to hear someone proffesional's opinion if you/Mrs Ijjy wouldn't mind? Thanks for the advice mate.

 

[icburns]

Is there a chance your step dad might come on here?

A valid concern that should not be overlooked.

 

[FTY]

Is there a chance your step dad might come on here?

None mate, he's a Forest fan.

 

[noharmdone]

None mate, he's a Forest fan.

His team of support isn't relavant mate..

 

[FTY]

What other family do you have near you? You're not whinging or attention seeking, your step dad is bang out of order and if there's an adult you trust who can help you you must talk to them.

Nah we moved away from Ormskirk a couple of years ago, and all my family there, a bit isolated tbh.

 

[FTY]

His team of support isn't relavant mate..

I know but he's hardly gonna be attracted to an Everton forum is he..

 

[HSD]

FTY, that is not in any way acceptable. Have you spoke to your mum about it?

If you ever want to chat in regards to this or not, just inbox me.

 

[Bluenose1995]

like I said mate if you ever want to talk message me whenever my best mate had issues with his arl fella growing up and its not good