Well I can only apologise again, but as a 3rd party it doesn't come across as an attack on you, unless there's previous exchanges in this or another thread that I didn't see. My reading is more of a general warning that marginalised groups shouldn't welcome the chance to join the 'in' crowd just to temporarily join in the hate against another marginalised groups. As the poem goes, "First they came for the Socialists...".
It can also be encapsulated by this comic.
Whilst I consider myself an ally, I'm not gay. As a proverbial straight white, middle-aged male I'm a member of so many in-groups that my perspective may well be skewed by that privilege. I clearly don't have your lived experience and I'm not going to claim to better at fighting against prejudice whilst simultaneously not suffering any consequences from it either way.
All that said, I do stand by my original point that the way you quote other people is bloody infuriating, who taught you to type ABOVE the quoted post, feral wolves?