dannyboy
Player Valuation: £70m
Therein lies the problem for many people. You need people around you you can trust, and people around you who have your best interests at heart. I, for example, set up a firewall on the internet so that all betting sites would at least be blocked on the wifi network. Would have worked until our dad demanded the firewall be lifted so that he himself could gamble - fully aware that his other son would be able to continue betting his life away! You couldn't make that stuff up. It also doesn't help when the addict himself refuses to talk about the subject, so really there is very little way to help, as you say. Terribly sad situation, but if people are unwilling to accept they have a problem or allow others to help ...
Excluding yourself from betting websites is another one that doesn't help. There is always another one to go to the next day when you convince yourself that it's your time to win big. I was amazed by how many there actually are. I'd self excluded from at least 20 by the time I started to do something about it.