The people that you know personally aren't going to be saying that, as I'm sure they're reasonable enough, intelligent people.
The spectrum of opinions you see online on the other hand is obviously very different. Seen a lot of people complaining he's too slow, show pony, not working hard enough and is a waste of money. From the outside we're able to see thats daft because we aren't emotionally invested in his success, but for some Newcastle fans - they genuinely seriously feel like that.
To me its similar on here with Barry. People I meet in real life who are fans of Everton or other clubs are nowhere near as dismissive of him as the majority on here. People might not be showering him with praise, but what I hear from people is know to be sensible is - not sure yet, give him time to find his feet and show what he can do.
If you look in his thread on here you would think he's the worst player to grace the Premier League.