I can understand why you are thinking along those lines mate. But I disagree with you for the reasons I stated in my post above. I believe that we are so polarised as a country now, the ONLY thing that could possibly start to bring us together is a compromise, even one that hardly anybody wants, if that makes sense. No side can claim victory, but both have a got a little bit of what they want.
Not sure if you saw it but there was a Greek guy on Question Time a couple of weeks ago and a lot of what he spoke was sense. He said that the UK was too strongly intertwined with the EU to enable us to make a clean break without great disruption and a real threat to jobs and the economy. He suggested we should have gone for a 2 phased withdrawal, whereby the first phase we stayed in the customs union and single market for a period, say 5 years. Then use that time to negotiate trade deals around the world, including one with the EU, so when phase 2 is activated we wouldn't notice the change so much.