The bickering Brits starting to get to you mate?lol
Seriously though, I can understand why Europeans will be getting fed up with Brexit just as much as we are in the UK.
Have I understood your last sentence correctly. Do you really feel that the UK staying in the EU is now not sustainable from a EU perspective?. If so, is that a general feeling over there or just your personal view. Are you aware of any ill feelings towards Brits living and working on the continent?
As regards your opening comments, the UK has never been as committed to the EU as the majority of member states on the continent. For a long time there has been a general feeling amongst many Brits that we are getting short changed and there has been pressure on governments to get concessions. I've only ever looked at it from our perspective but yeah, I can see why continental Europeans would take exception to it. I suppose it comes down to how much the EU value our membership and maybe we're just not as important to you as we thought we were.
Well in all fairness a bit mate; it’s annoying for both Brits and non-Brits.
Sorry for the late reply. Was in London for a couple of days and on top of that, I’d forgotten my laptop. So many people, so many impressions. I somehow ended up at the West-Ham Newcastle game. It’s bizarre I’m totally knackered even though I only normally need a minimum of sleep. Friendly people though.
Yes I think it’s unstainable; mostly because of the situation in the U.K – was problematic before isn’t improving. Well I’d say it’s probably a minority position (although I think quite a few are thinking the same but are afraid to articulate the sentiment- and some polls indicate the same sentiment) but it’s gaining more traction the more this goes on. I see today quite a few have articulated the sentiment that a hard Brexit is preferable to the uncertainty. Or you can be more open about it like De Grauwe (currently a professor at the London school of economics- In Belgium professors are encouraged to retire when they reach a certain age, he wanted to continue working) and just say: “They have to leave quickly, and fend for themselves”. Adding that a hard Brexit might be the least damaging option (especially for the current toxic political climate in the U.K). In his defence, again, like some others he also said something similar before the referendum (when he was already working in the U.K. for 4 years): for the E.U as a whole brexit is probably the best. Simply because there is a lot of hostility in the U.K. towards the E.U : the media and a large part of the political establishment hate the European Union – this would not suddenly have disappeared after a successful referendum. On the contrary (and this I also want to avoid now), the Brits would have just doubled up on their usual strategies to undermine every form of integration/further cooperation. Some go further and say that the Brits, during their entire membership, tried to steer the rest of Europe with a colonial arrogance. Ironically also an argument for some remainers: we should stay so we can block things.
And you can find similar in newspapers (this one from a professor from the University of Nijmegen, Dutch newspaper).
E.g: ”Onder al het Britse gechicaneer rond de brexit denk ik steeds vaker: barst dan maar!: Er zijn momenten waarop ik bijna op een harde brexit hoop. De stupiditeit, onkunde, arrogantie en kleingeestigheid die de toon zetten in de Britse politiek lijken niet beter te verdienen.
Translation: “Amongst all the British pettifogging surrounding Brexit the more I think: go to hell! There are moments when I’m practically hoping for a hard Brexit. The stupidity, ignorance, arrogance and small-mindedness that sets the tone in British politics doesn’t deserve any better”.
No especially ill feelings towards Brits living and working on the continent that I’m aware off; the most you might find are people that get annoyed when they have been living here for a long time and still don’t speak the language- but I think that’s universal.
Most Brits I know though are young anti-Brexit and quite angry with it all tbf. I thought I mentioned it earlier in here. The most recent one I met, specifically moved here because he’s angry with Brexit, working for the local Jetair branch. Has a clause in his contract though that if Brexit has any negative effect on said company/his functioning that they can fire him without many difficulties. Quite brave of him.
I think most people make a distinction between the person and the nation/government (regardless of the nationality).
The problem is most people only ever looked at the financial side of the membership (not all I know); how much they pay in etc. The Brits were not getting short-changed. I pay in more than an average Brit (both countries net-contributors): 109 €/year for a Belgian, 90 €/year for a Brit. I don’t care, because of other advantages (and yes I realize I’ll probably will have to pay more because of Brexit – still don’t care). While we’re at it. Some of the more staunch remainers seriously annoy me when they spam social media with ideas like: “My personal contribution a year is x; in case of Brexit I’m willing to pay double when we leave the E.U. in order to retain my E.U. citizenship on annual basis (and accompanying freedom of movement etc…)”. If this isn’t prime-cherry-picking what is; the advantages for a small sum. Fully aware a continental European can’t opt in for something similar.
The problem is Ireland though, there needs to be a solution that works for them. I feel the current agreement is good for that (not entirely happy with it, but it’s a compromise so…).
Again though; being part of the E.U doesn’t change if somebody/a nation is your friend or not. I said it before I don’t really care a lot about nationality. It doesn’t mean you’ll get an easy deal though like some people thought. That’s a pipe-dream, said so from the start. It will have a tangible effect on the lives of normal people and in my opinion not for the better, certainly not for the vulnerable segments.