I posted this in the Trump thread, but it’s worth putting in here. An article from the guardian......
https://www.theguardian.com/media/2017/nov/29/vortex-online-political-debate-arguments-trump-brexit
The problem is that what he's suggesting isn't a solution. It's basically saying "shut up and accept what's going on because moaning about it only makes it worse."
It's spot on in that an effort to understand 'the other side' is almost a lost art of debate these days - people pigeon hole people into nice little labels because it's easier to call anyone and everyone who voted leave/remain a 'Brexiteer' or 'Remoaner', because social media has opened up a whole barrel of intellectual laziness in recent years. However, that doesn't mean you still shouldn't make your point forcefully if you believe it - as long as you've actually looked at the situation properly and not just noticed one update on Facebook and went full barrels without further research, which is unfortunately the norm these days.
But yes, as someone who was immediately labelled 'Tory' because I voted against Jeremy Corbyn for a myriad of reasons (with ironically being a fan of the Conservatives not even close to being one of them), I do fully understand that article. But it really isn't a solution.