Do you work in law now? My first office job was at a small family law firm and it was without a doubt the most exhilarating job I have had.
Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues
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Do you work in law now? My first office job was at a small family law firm and it was without a doubt the most exhilarating job I have had.
coollino
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intellectual property/patents so, yeah, to an extent i do. Fairly surprising really considering how clueless i was about firms and career aspirations compared to others at the time
It strikes me as somewhat Ulysses like and I wonder whether the flaw is with me for being too daft to get it or with the writer for producing something so opaque.
It’s notoriously difficult and as I have admitted I may not understand it completely. However what I did grasp was to me, profound.
coollino
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Have you ever read any of Mark Fishers stuff?
Mark Fisher - Wikipedia
he is very interesting if you are into philosophy linking with modern culture etc. read loads of his k-punk blog when at uni.
Have you ever read any of Mark Fishers stuff?
Mark Fisher - Wikipedia
en.wikipedia.org
he is very interesting if you are into philosophy linking with modern culture etc. read loads of his k-punk blog when at uni.
I haven’t mate. Will have a look into him along with the suggestions Bruce made. Do you like philosophy? It’s certainly got a lot of cross overs with law.
Bryan+
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Thanks to @chicoazul and @tommye for the abuse when i was almost dying of COVID, sadly it didn't kill me and i have to suffer the Evertonian way of life for some time to come.
Language games, innit
Barnfred 55
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I don't even know what this means. Probably just as well
Apparently so.
coollino
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I don't even know what this means. Probably just as well
Well let me know if you want a physical example lol
When my my two boys were born I so wanted my dad to b3 a part of their lives. But the drink killed him and he died young at 53. I was very angry with him. I judged him and had no right to. I wasn't there for him when he was dying, didn't give him a kiss and cuddle and tell him I loved him. I refused / didn't attend his funeral and occasionally I have days when I think of how much of a coward I was. I hate my cowardice and that I wasn't there for him. Painfully day today.
We all make decisions mate, rightly or wrongly and sometimes we can regret them but at the time of making them they make sense.
My dad passed away last August (he left us when I was 11) but growing up, becoming an adult and a father myself I tried time after time to get the relationship to work but it wasn't to be. I didn't attend his funeral, I never got tosay goodbye, never got to say I love him, never got to pull him up over all the pain he caused the family over the years.....but....my conscience is clear with my particular decision and every now and then a song comes on the radio that reminds me of him and I look up and say "hey you daft sod I hope your alright and I still love you".
Sorry mate, probably gone off on one a bit there haven't I. I just wouldn't want you beating yourself up when I reckon you would have made the decision in good faith at the time not to go the funeral or not try and speak to him at that particular time.
WilliamPerry
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That’s a heavy weight on you mate . But we all make mistakes . everyone deals with death in different ways. Don’t beat yourself up about it
Make your peace with him mate. You’ll know how to do that. Good luck.
