More than one thing can be true at once though. We were terrible, and i've said as much in lots of different threads, but for me the Keane red card is an absolute joke. It wouldn't matter if we'd won 9-0 or lost 9-0, it would still be a joke. You can look back at all my other posts in this thread to see that I am definitely not someone who cryarses about every refereeing decision, far from it, but to me that just isn't a red card offence and saying it's a 'stick on' is laughable. The Grealish one I have no sympathy for, we all know you're asking for trouble doing that, but honestly if what Keane did is classed as violent conduct then things have got badly out of hand. People get seriously hurt by deliberate actions with no sending off, I'm not sure that Tolu even knew Keane had done it.
I agree 99.9%, the only suspicion I have in
Grealish's case is the 1st yellow card. Was he spoken to by the ref, did the ref try to calm him down by explaining his decision, did the ref warn him and then issue the yellow. For me dissent is a two way thing. Emotions can boil over on the field of play and the ref should be generally understanding of this. Watch how Rugby refs deal with dissent, there is never a straight to the pocket situation. They are humble enough to say 'If I got it wrong, I apologise'. The ref understands the emotions and the players understand and respect the refs job.
Of course, if the ref did take him aside (it must not have been a long conversation if he did) then fair enough, but watching football these days I doubt any ref has that kind of game management skill.
I don’t like the rule, it’s ridiculous but if the referee doesn’t give a red for that he’s incompetent and would be dropped by his bosses. The guidance on it and how refs have to apply that situation is clear. Diddy ex pros who don’t know the rules and angry fans, that’s it. There’s not a single referee that would think that’s even remotely the wrong decision.
Hearing Moyes bleating about it after the game is pathetic.
The rule that he was sent off for was violent conduct. You honestly think that is violent conduct. An inch to the right and left he was grabbing shirt, is that violent conduct. My point being is that Keane was not looking at the players hair and purposefully grabbing it. The ref was lacking common sense and a backbone. VAR sends him over, the player may as well walk off the pitch before the ref has even watched it.
Osman described it perfectly. Hair pulling has to be malicious, it has to be purposeful. That was never in a million years, purposeful or malicious. It was a guy jumping and putting his hand on somebodies back who happened to have long hair that he instinctively held on to as they were both coming back down to the ground.
The game has seriously gone if anybody thinks that is violent conduct.