It says I have 3 visitor messages, which I dont, because ive read them all. Could you offer a solution?

*rubs eyes*
Toys back in the pram now then?
To be fair, you know all the answers how to run a forum so you shouldn't need help.
Try deleting the notifications that are alerted.
If that doesn't work, ask Cal when he is back.
Try deleting the notifications that are alerted.
If that doesn't work, ask Cal when he is back.
When he is back, he will be able to delete them from his sent box.