Ways to forget ex gf?

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Mike:
Okay, so what if I don't want to give up on her?

Rob:
You don't call.

Mike:
But you said I don't call if I wanted to give up on her.

Rob:
Right.

Mike:
So I don't call either way?

Rob:
Right.

Mike:
So what's the difference?

Rob:
There is no difference right now. See, Mike, the only difference between giving up and not giving up is if you take her back when she wants to come back. But you can't do anything to make her want to come back. In fact, you can only do stuff to make her not want to come back.

Mike:
So the only difference is if I forget about her or just pretend to forget about her?

Rob:
Right.

Mike:
Well that sucks.

Rob:
Yeah, it sucks.

Mike:
So it's just like a retroactive decision, then? I mean I could, like, forget about her and then when she comes back make like I just pretended to forget about her?

Rob:
Right. Although probably more likely the opposite.

Mike:
What do you mean?

Rob:
I mean at first you're going to pretend to forget about her, you'll not call her, I don't know, whatever... but then eventually, you really will forget about her.

Mike:
Well what if she comes back first?

Rob:
Mmmm... see, that's the thing, is somehow they know not to come back until you really forget.

Mike:
There's the rub.

Rob:
There's the rub.

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Give it time mate and focus on your self for a bit. I appreciate the way things are right now might limit your options but keep yourself busy doing things you maybe didn’t have as time for previously. Maybe pick up a new hobby.

Also break off all contact. Don’t reply to any messages she may send. You need to get her out of your mind.

I had a messy break up years ago and I started going to the gym more regularly, eating healthier and working harder at uni/work. The first few months were rough but I came out of it in a much better place.
 
Yarrgh said:
Serious advice, don't forget her. Just concentrate on yourself and doing stuff that makes you happy or benefits you. The sooner you unfollow her on social media etc. the better off you will be. Never bring her up but don't avoid her, and never speak bad of her if you have to comment about her (I presume you have mutual firends). Have as much fun as you can doing what you find fun.

And of course, brass and lemo, and remember she'd eat her own faeces if left chained up enough. And failing that, place your penis into some rice or sawdust.
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So timely - I’m literally going thru the same with a woman I have come to find out (from her mother) has lied to me for 5yrs. From who her father is, who the father of her eldest son is, stolen valour (claimed to be in the military - not true), extra curricular relationships (before we moved in together), and to top the lot, a 3rd child that died that she made up completely.
I still haven’t blocked her yet as she has a few things remaining at my house. Once that stuff has been picked up, I’m cutting all contact.
 
Baines' left foot said:
Give it time mate and focus on your self for a bit. I appreciate the way things are right now might limit your options but keep yourself busy doing things you maybe didn’t have as time for previously. Maybe pick up a new hobby.

Also break off all contact. Don’t reply to any messages she may send. You need to get her out of your mind.

I had a messy break up years ago and I started going to the gym more regularly, eating healthier and working harder at uni/work. The first few months were rough but I came out of it in a much better place.
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Really? I went on a 3 month bender and got a nutcase pregnant.
 

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