Ways to forget ex gf?

[Deleted member 48881]

Please don't come up with stuff like meaningless sex or wanking folks. This is serious..How do we do it?

Films, video games..what else.

 

[Nymzee]

Time.

 

[Kurt.]

Don’t ever dig the patio up

 

[Daveysgingerlovechild]

Soul searching. Including figuring out quite why you can't let her go.

 

[mezzrow]

What Nymzee said. That, and the next GF.

It'll take some of the first to get to the next.

 

[Daveysgingerlovechild]

Jail is a possibility too. Works for some, not others.

 

[tommye]

It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all

 

[Nymzee]

For a while everything in life will remind you of her; maybe a song comes on your iTunes and you think of her, maybe you find something she left in your house, maybe a film you loved watching together comes on TV and you think about her. For a while you might not even want to go to certain restaurants or the cinema or certain cities because it was your thing to do together. It's going to take time and it's going to be utter wank for a while but eventually you'll think about them less and less till one day you wonder what it even feels like to miss that person. Concentrate on yourself, get out into the world and relax, reconnect with friends/families you might have strayed from.

And stay the absolute F away from social media. Block her on anything you have her on so you don't get tempted to go looking for something you don't want to see.

Good luck.

 

[tommye]

Of course the real answer is brass and lemo


Enjoy

 

[Nymzee]

Or what Tommy said.

 

[Deleted member 48881]

I didnt post about this issue on depression thread for a reason, cus there are far bigger problems being discussed there. Plus I did want some tongue in cheek reactions as long as they are not over the top. So thank you all.

My main problem is, though I do have solid female friends, I cant stop comparing them to my ex. That bit comes in my way, stopping me going to distance with other gals.

 

[mmmmsnouts]

Have you tried sawdust mate?

 

[Deleted member 48881]

Have you tried sawdust mate?

thought that was to fix phones mate

 

[COYBL25]

 

[mmmmsnouts]

thought that was to fix phones mate

Sawdust fixes everything, try it and see