Of course it matters how it is worded. Do you want to go to basics with this?
Let's just see how the second ref is worded and the outcome then we can continue with this....you don't think people will vote for a no deal second time around do you? When all the Japanese car plants are closing down and we have nothing to export to the rest of the world???
Seriously, if you don't understand hypothetical situations that's fine, all I am asking is, in the simplest terms, and based on your prophecy that people would speak with freedom and knowledge, what if, with that freedom and knowledge they voted to leave, just leave, what would you do then? Accept it as being the will of an informed public?
Is that basic enough for you, because it's as simple as I can put it?