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Oh dear oh dear oh dear....

An old friend took their life a few weeks ago. I found out about an hour ago. I was thinking about her maybe three weeks ago - she killed herself around that time. Oh dear oh dear....

She was my Classroom Assistant for a year - the best one I ever had. It was the toughest class I ever taught but we rode shotgun with each other for a year and at the end of it that class could hold its head up high. We did it. All of us. Thirty kids, me and Sara.

She was beautiful. Five foot ten and bright blue eyes. She looked like Catherine Zeta Jones. Seriously, she was such a head-turner that you assumed she was a bit of a bitch but she was anything but. She had a tough life though. [Poor language removed] bugle-hoovering psycho ex who hounded her and hounded her and a spectrum disorder son who drained her energy more than he meant to. Poor, poor lad. Oh dear, oh dear...

I was going to ring her a few weeks ago. I meant to ring her loads of times. I never did though. Oh Sara, I'm sorry.

I remember a boy in my class (who call I'll Devon on here to protect his identity). There were so many obstacles in his life, so many issues, and yet he eventually managed to pull himself around and was eventually really successful in his SATs even though two years earlier he would scream "I can't write!" and storm out of the classroom. Sara was part of that. A massive part. She supported him, gained his trust. He would rant and rave and she would smile at him, even laugh gently, and help him when he'd calmed down. Eventually be became transformed - I met someone from his secondary school a few months ago and asked if they knew him. She smiled and said yes, of course, he was the politest boy in the school. Sara helped him so much. So much.

And eventually, we all three of us left the school at the same time to go elsewhere. I to another primary, of course, Devon to his secondary school and Sara left too because she didn't want to stay there without me. As chance would have it, she got another job supporting in Devon's secondary school which I though was great for both of them. She never did work directly with him again but she would tell me that she saw him practically every day and he would cheerfully call out "Hello miss!"

And now she's gone.

Oh dear. dear oh dear....

Too sad. Too, too sad.

I'm so sorry, Sara. I really did mean to ring..
 
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:( Thats terrible mate. So scary to think that someone who sounds like she had it all going for her could find herself in such a position where she felt like that. Can happen to anyone and is a lesson to all of us that what we see on the outside can be decieving. Who knows what people are thinking. My mums best mate's 18 year old killed herself 2 years ago. Her twin sister dropped out of school and is still having real problems coping. Was a complete shock as she didnt seem to be having any trouble at all.

Dont feel guilty man, somethings you just cant control. If you'd have known the thoughts she was having you would have been there for her straight away, so take comfort in that. You weren't to know, and by the sounds of it, no one was to know. Thoughts are with you and her family.
 
I'm just another stranger on the internet but when you wake up in the morning after sleeping on it I'm hoping you'll be focusing on how you positively touched her life rather than on what you could have done, despite being at a disadvantage of not being able to see into the future.

RIP Sara.
 

May she rest in peace mate, something like this stops you in your traks and makes try make sense of life, the human mind can be a terrible prison at certain times.
 
Oh dear oh dear oh dear....

An old friend took their life a few weeks ago. I found out about an hour ago. I was thinking about her maybe three weeks ago - she killed herself around that time. Oh dear oh dear....

She was my Classroom Assistant for a year - the best one I ever had. It was the toughest class I ever taught but we rode shotgun with each other for a year and at the end of it that class could hold its head up high. We did it. All of us. Thirty kids, me and Sara.

She was beautiful. Five foot ten and bright blue eyes. She looked like Catherine Zeta Jones. Seriously, she was such a head-turner that you assumed she was a bit of a bitch but she was anything but. She had a tough life though. [Poor language removed] bugle-hoovering psycho ex who hounded her and hounded her and a spectrum disorder son who drained her energy more than he meant to. Poor, poor lad. Oh dear, oh dear...

I was going to ring her a few weeks ago. I meant to ring her loads of times. I never did though. Oh Sara, I'm sorry.

I remember a boy in my class (who call I'll Devon on here to protect his identity). There were so many obstacles in his life, so many issues, and yet he eventually managed to pull himself around and was eventually really successful in his SATs even though two years earlier he would scream "I can't write!" and storm out of the classroom. Sara was part of that. A massive part. She supported him, gained his trust. He would rant and rave and she would smile at him, even laugh gently, and help him when he'd calmed down. Eventually be became transformed - I met someone from his secondary school a few months ago and asked if they knew him. She smiled and said yes, of course, he was the politest boy in the school. Sara helped him so much. So much.

And eventually, we all three of us left the school at the same time to go elsewhere. I to another primary, of course, Devon to his secondary school and Sara left too because she didn't want to stay there without me. As chance would have it, she got another job supporting in Devon's secondary school which I though was great for both of them. She never did work directly with him again but she would tell me that she saw him practically every day and he would cheerfully call out "Hello miss!"

And now she's gone.

Oh dear. dear oh dear....

Too sad. Too, too sad.

I'm so sorry, Sara. I really did mean to ring..



That's TRULY Heartbreaking , long Neck , Mate .

She sounded Lovely , AN' HOT ...

Terrible , terrible shame ....


R.I.P. Sara .
 

Wow... that's horrible, mate.

I lost someone very close to me a few years back, during a period in which I was having what must have been the first ever fight I'd had with them. I felt awful about it, but ultimately none of us can see the future.

RIP Sara.
 
Sorry to hear this mate, and you can't blame yourself, unfortunately life gets in the way of the things which we want to do. I suppose the moral of the story which we all can take from it is, why put of tomorrow what you can do today, certainly got me thinking. I have lots of old friends who i wish and know i should stay in touch more but never do, thanks for sharing this, may make me pick up the phone a bit more and just say HI.
Rest in peace Sara.
 
Very sorry to hear that mate, as others have said, you can't blame yourself, you can't see into the future. Look back on the happy times when you smiled together, cried together, and remember the lives that she touched.
 
I know what you are going through mate. We have had two very tragic events at my school in recent weeks, as well as the loss of our head girl through cancer just over six months ago. I can fully appreciate how you are feeling and my thoughts are with you at this very sad time mate.
 

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