ffs, cheese!
This is hard evidence for what?
There's nothing too interesting or heavy in that video. At the 8-minute mark he just briefly mentions women automatically have been assigned a role in life due to their biological-necessity of having children. That's it. His theme is what meaning should or could be for men.
I agree with you that he's minimalising the female experience. But what's your point? That this proves he hates women? That he's empowering violence against women?
No, of course not. That's an insane leap. It proves only that his focus is on more the male side, that he probably knows very little about the female experience (well, he is a man) and that at most he may be revealing some mild sexism when he minimises them in such ways. It proves that he is a flawed man, like we all are.
See my previous analogy of calling someone who criticises mass-immigration policies a "Nazi". Same thing happening here. It's then only a small step to
"it's ok to punch a Nazi", then a little further until we again get to a point where we're rounding up people because we've deem them to belong to a certain undesirable group. It's ok to throw in jail a proven misogynist, he hates women!
Who controls language, controls people.
Language is important. We allow too much misuse over too long a time-period and we risk losing the liberal gains we've made these last few decades. Not just Orwell warned us of this.
We see its misuse even in your post:
"You are willing to spend hours jumping through logic hoops to justify the man's comments"
Which logic hoops? My logic has been consistent. And was I justifying or was I explaining his comments? There's a difference and it's significant.
"You are apoplectic about the outrageous claims of the Durham city council. "
apoplectic:
overcome with anger; furious. I think you'll find my tone was reasonable throughout. But you're on-point at least with labelling Durham's claims as "outrageous".
"you defend Peterson to the death."
This implies I let no criticism of him through. But that's not accurate, is it?
"He has millions in his cult of personality"
A cult of personality is totally idealised...without fault. You'll find the vast majority of JP supporters have no problem to criticise him. We see it all the time in comment threads on Youtube, Twitter, news-sites, forums...he's not beyond criticism, ergo he's not a cult of personality by any stretch. He will have a small band of überfans who maybe see him as such, but these won't number millions. Thousands maybe, that's 0.1% of millions.
The (laboured) point is: you're using exaggerated language to artificially strengthen your position: so the focus is not your argument, but the righteousness of your language. We see this problem in Twitter-outrage-spats all the time. It's why they get so out of hand. People wilfully misuse language to score points instead of better framing their argument. Guardian opinion writers are a good (bad) example of this, whereas only 5-10 years ago their language was much more measured, and thus more focussed on whatever their argument was.
And again, it's why Brexit, Trump et al happened. A good (bad) example of Brexit is the criticism of the 350m red bus, with both sides misusing & exaggerating language to strengthen their position instead of their argument. No wonder so many voters didn't really understand what they were voting for, and by extension no wonder why Brexit is in such a mess.
If it carries on like this, we'll end up in an idiocracy. People won't even know what
nuance means anymore.