Sigh. No mate. I could easily end up writing a basic undergrad essay here but it’s entirely pointless. Gender roles have little or no basis in any kind of supposed evolutionary determinism especially going forward into a post Industrial Age. [or from Butler "Masculine and feminine roles are not biologically fixed but socially constructed"]
Again, you're not explaining why you believe your controversial statements. That's what's pointless. If you want meaning, you have to provide it.
You're plain wrong and I'll explain why. This is gonna be a TL/DR for most people. And that's cool. But such a weighty disagreement deserves more than short-form statements if anything's to be truly understood.
Men are biologically built stronger & bigger than woman. If you disagree with that then the rest will be gobbledigook to you. So I'm assuming you are seeing that most obvious of things. So then the next thing to consider is: has this physical advantage naturally assigned gender roles?
Well, clearly yes. That's why the man went hunting and the woman looked after home. We're not a million years away from these times, hence we still have these "biologically-fixed" gender roles. Evolution moves slowly. Are you familiar with Darwin's work? Not wanting to sound patronising, I'm being serious. It's important to understand how slow evolution (and its inherent biological-imperativism) evolves.
So the next thing to consider is has the Industrial Revolution (your example) put paid to this advantage? No, it hasn't. For two reasons:
1) the man is still bigger & stronger, he thus will instinctively feel a responsibility for bigger & stronger work (remember, evolution moves slowly). Modern life still has such work, even if it means more things like 12-hour shifts rather than gutting rabbits.
These instincts of competition, territorialism, fight-or-flight and base survival are still there. And if the male is naturally stronger, he will have these instincts more than the female. It's biology. It's not something we can deny is there. It shapes the roles men & woman have (gender roles, if you like). It's different with bears or spiders, as their gender strength-gap isn't the same as humans.
See also the debate on men's sports vs women's sports, and their popularity in the eyes of the world's populace. That's not a socially-constructed popularity, that's borne of biological advantage. That's why we don't watch the Women's Premier League.
2) the woman, tho' empowered, continues to not 'choose' the path the man chooses. Hence we have the infamous gender pay-gap which only exists because the woman is
impelled to work less hard than men (to protect her ability to carry & nurture children as well as being physically weaker) and/or in fields less well-paid (
competition, remember? that's a man thing) and/or choose to have babies and then take even longer work breaks to care for them. This is their biological-imperativism at work. It's not a socially-constructed role. Our species has worked with this biological truth to form society. We didn't invent it to form society, it's the way we're built.
Individually, we can indeed choose to work against these imperatives...no problem. We're intelligent & advanced enough. The man can look after home & baby and the woman can go provide. All good. But biological-imperative means this won't be the norm unless forced upon by social changes (
progressivism) or tens-of-thousands of years of further evolution.
The irony is that you're not seeing where biology ends & social culture begins. You think culture decides biological-imperativism - i.e. culture decides men are stronger and thus seek to do strong work, or at least that men being stronger makes social culture push them in a direction of strong work - but that's impossible. Social culture can only work with or away from biological-imperativism, it cannot decide what it is.
Gender (non-biological) is the social construct. Gender (biological) is the real thing. The former can mean anything you want it to mean...it's lala-fantasyland. Nowt wrong with that. Makes life interesting. But once you deny the latter you're intellectually in trouble.
And it's intellect (again, see Darwin) which has gotten us humans so far.
Whatever you studied at Uni is irrelevant if it's just plain wrong and thus without actual use in the real world - unless your 'use' is furthering social agendas...we now know the masses of students with aimless social-studies degrees are not getting on in the workplace...and we now know why, as I've explained above.
You might disagree. But if all you've got is stating something as if it's true without explaining yourself at least empirically, then you've got no argument.
Hence, you've lost the argument. Ergo, the IDW wins.
As you're the antithesis of IDW and presumably don't want them to win, maybe you'd like to try to present your case better?
What a man or women is meant to be is imprinted upon them from the moment they are born.
Eh?