What is really turning my crank far beyond the end result. This isn't a court of law, so yes, innocent until proven guilty doesn't apply the same way, it's not a criminal trial.
The accusation was made, and three witness were named. No one disputes that.
The accused denied the accusation. All three of the witness unequivocally denied they witnessed the accusation or had any knowledge of it. No disputes there.
That's it. What really happened at that point is simply a matter of who you believe, choose to believe, or think is likely, based on unrelated circumstantial information. We can all point to whatever pieces of information we wish that we feel makes our opinion has merit. But understand, there are zero facts toward innocence or guilt and we're not debating that. What we're debating is the validity of the reason we are using to make our assumption of innocent or guilt. Subtle but very different.
Activism is fine, protesting is fine, arguing your point is fine. And if your opinion, based on whatever criteria you used, is that he is guilty as accused, that's fine, it's your OPINION. But if someone honestly says "I don't know what or who to believe" that's probably what they mean.
If you then say ok if you don't agree with me, you're wrong.
Ergo you don't believe her, and think she's lying.
How can you be ok with a letting a woman be sexually assaulted?
Why do you silence women of abuse?
And then you proceed to become absolutely unhinged and embark on a scorched-Earth policy of protest, angry confrontation, and tell me that I'm a despicable human being, and you won't accept it anymore.
If you take "Man I don't know" the same as Blah blah blah Dr. Ford is lying, she should just shut up. Women just need to get over it, this stuff is no big deal, shut up and get back in the kitchen and proceed to rake me over the coals for that...
That's an agenda. And I have a REAL problem with that.