It’s just the changing times...many on here will have grown up with the BBC finishing each nights programme schedule by playing the National Anthem... all the cinemas used to do the same after the film...it’s just different times and generations. To you it’s small-mindedness, to others it’s respect for our country. Have you ever complained about all those blue flags with gold stars on which are seemingly everywhere you look...even at last night of the proms...but I suppose that’s different.....
I’ve never really got this myself - respect for a country or pride in a flag?
How do I respect a whole country? Do I have to respect everyone and everything in it including all the crimes and criminals? There’s lots of people, institutions and actions in every country that don’t deserve respect. Is it disrespectful to point those things out?
As for pride in a flag, I’ve always thought we should be proud of actions or achievements, not a bit of fabric you can pick up in a gift shop for a quid.
Flags are a Rorschach test, we get out of it what we bring to it. Some people may link the Union flag with the armed forces, so have pride in it for that reason - but the trigger of that pride isn’t located in the flag, it’s elsewhere.
Others may still link the flag with the National Front’s appropriation of it so pride isn’t necessarily the first emotion they feel. But still, that emotion isn’t in the flag, it’s the association to another thing that the flag represents to them.