Well that is where you are wrong I am afraid. I dont like the EU much. Its really irritating at times.
But I do value freedom of movement, free trade, and cooperation on stuff like research, the eco stuff, crime, and intel.
What, or rather who, I dont like nor trust, is the like of Boris Johnson, (in it for me), Rees Mogg, Nigel Fargarge and random right wing racists who have fed you tripe, for their own ends, and you have swallowed it.
The UK I love was on display in London in 2012. The UK you want is in 1973.
Not quite.
I would like to see one rule for immigration applied globally and for UK not to be forced into admitting non UK citizens just because they have an EU passport. I am not against immigration and I am very pro Europe, but I am very anti EU.
Cooperation doesn't have to stop between countries just because one is a member of EU and one isn't. We already have cooperation within NATO, UN etc. The world doesn't stop at the EU external borders and I think that is the message that needs to be put across better by Leavers.
We are not (with a few sad exceptions) racist, xenophobic, isolationist, or empire builders. We value cooperation in areas of mutual interest - we just like to maintain (or recover in the case of brexit) our independence while we do it.
In my particular case, I am a Brit, with an Irish licence, Irish ancestry (county Cork) a Malaysian wife and daughter and I converted to Islam purely to marry the woman I love. I lived 9 years in Brunei, 8 years in Singapore and 7 years (and counting) in Dubai so I really don't think I would have survived those years if I was any of the things that most remainers seem to think we are.
As the saying goes, it's good to talk, but there are some idiots on both sides of the debate that just seem to want to fight rather than have a polite intelligent debate.
Sad, but not surprising in today's world.