summerisle
The rain, it raineth every day
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MrD
Player Valuation: £10m
Thank you all. Not sure what I'm doing or where I'm going yet. But the kindness has made me cry. I'm a total stranger why would you help me?
MrD
Player Valuation: £10m
Yes my mum in Liverpool (I moved to North Wales in 2010 from Liverpool) and my sister lives in the north east.
MrD
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Thank youMany of us have been where you are at the mo mate and have come through the other side ( give or take )
Common decency amongst fellow blues
MrD
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Yes she knows. They all know and have been supportive and said all the right things. I have two options really.
1, try and get some sort of universal credit thing set up which can help me get a place to stay albeit probably a dive.
Then try to cope with living alone with nothing while coming to terms with all this as well as the huge changes I have to make. I'm just worried being alone as I have no friends at all here, will keep me in a bad state of mind.
Staying in North Wales is close to my little girl.
Or...
2, stay at my mum's for a while until I get better etc but my mum won't let me be. She will be on me all the time putting pressure on me which I'm sure you all think is a good thing as it will keep me focused.
I'll have tension with my mum because of that, she is very set In her ways and her house is boring as anything but at least it's a home and I won't be alone.
Moving to Liverpool for a bit is about 80 minutes away from my little girl.
Pros and cons everywhere
AmericasToffee
Player Valuation: £40m
D
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“Change happens when the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of change.”
If you want a job and a career, you can get one, no problem. There are plenty of opportunities available. If you want some practical advice around going about that, feel free to message me as I can definitely give you some pointers.
It’s not going to be a breeze, but all great journeys start with one step. Make that first step mate and no matter what, stick it out for at least a year, your circumstances will improve, I guarantee.
You can have everything you listed there. It won’t even take you that long to achieve either. You’re 41, not 71! And believe me, in 5 years, you’ll wish you started today.
Tim's tourettes
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Mr.D, no one will laugh at u here mate. We post on here as we have all been through the mill to one extent or another. I'm guessing u half expecting people to say 'get a grip' etc, people on here generally know that doesn't help. If I told most people my anxieties they would probably laugh at me but they scare the s$%t out of me. It's all relative. Anxiety/depression/stress is debilitating and clearly so in your case.
Doesn't mean u cant change things though. As u will see in these posts, things can be turned around. Set your self small, realistic targets and start building on them. Get on the right meds and access Cbt through your Gp. Good luck fella.
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Doesn't mean u cant change things though. As u will see in these posts, things can be turned around. Set your self small, realistic targets and start building on them. Get on the right meds and access Cbt through your Gp. Good luck fella.
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You need to do what`s best for you mate and follow the path that leads to you getting better / getting your life back.
Could you`re daughter not come to stay with you at the weekends if you decided to go back to your mums ?
I appreciate that this may not be possible due to her mum.
