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On this topic, and it’s something that I’m very aware of at the moment and trying to navigate so this is a genuine question.

I have a few month old daughter, but when we are out at cafes or restaurants or some shops etc, the baby change is in the women’s toilets. How do I navigate that as a 30 something man while still being respectful/maintaining safe spaces?

And as she gets older and is using a toilet, I’m also not keen on taking her into men’s toilets, again what’s the correct approach?
If baby changing is in the women's bogs you could ask the Mrs to do it, or if you are alone, ask someone (maybe someone who works there) if they're empty, so that you can change the baby.
If:
a) The bogs are busy, wait for the people to come out, before going inside.
b) The bogs are empty, go in, and change the rug rat.

LstoryS, use your common sense at the time. You're a dad with a sprog, people* will get it....


*apart from those wokey leftys who will phone the police when they see you, and report you** to social services as a paedo for taking a female toddler into the male toilets, or going** into the changing facilities with a baby, I mean how dare you, you ****ing pervert? <insert angry gammon face>

** will never happen
 
If baby changing is in the women's bogs you could ask the Mrs to do it, or if you are alone, ask someone (maybe someone who works there) if they're empty, so that you can change the baby.
If:
a) The bogs are busy, wait for the people to come out, before going inside.
b) The bogs are empty, go in, and change the rug rat.

LstoryS, use your common sense at the time. You're a dad with a sprog, people* will get it....


*apart from those wokey leftys who will phone the police when they see you, and report you** to social services as a paedo for taking a female toddler into the male toilets, or going** into the changing facilities with a baby, I mean how dare you, you ****ing pervert? <insert angry gammon face>

** will never happen
Shouldn’t fall on my partner to always do it though. And I agree, should be common sense and people should accept it, but then you have the issue of a 6 foot 4 bloke in the women’s toilets which could be intimidating and takes away the whole idea of a safe space (regardless of the baby).

And my issue about taking her into the men’s is that I don’t particularly want her to see/deal with men’s toilets.

It’s a wider issue really, and everyone should fee they have safe spaces irregardless of gender.
 
Shouldn’t fall on my partner to always do it though. And I agree, should be common sense and people should accept it, but then you have the issue of a 6 foot 4 bloke in the women’s toilets which could be intimidating and takes away the whole idea of a safe space (regardless of the baby).

And my issue about taking her into the men’s is that I don’t particularly want her to see/deal with men’s toilets.

It’s a wider issue really, and everyone should fee they have safe spaces irregardless of gender.

Identify as a woman. Doesn't matter what they think then.
 
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