Robert Jarvis
Player Valuation: £35m
No it was clean until you got wrapped in it.
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ricardobee
Player Valuation: £35m
Its simple
Find yourself a minger.
Cups of tea in bed FOREVER.
FACT!!
ps my girls lush in case shes reading this
Find yourself a minger.
Cups of tea in bed FOREVER.
FACT!!
ps my girls lush in case shes reading this
ricardobee
Player Valuation: £35m
Can't make a bad cuppa with pyramids.
monty
Sack Sky and donate to GOT...donations are needed
Ifr you only got in at five then you must have had a leg over, if you didn't
SNAP OUT OF IT, SNAP OUT OF IT
If she's not walking round gingerly today then I aint talking to you anymore.
Robert Jarvis
Player Valuation: £35m
It's Jon who is walking round carefully.
jon_efc
Player Valuation: £8m
well.. thought i would update this topic, since its where most of the advise came from etc...
its been a few weeks since i have said anything etc... but hey...
well even after all the advise and stuff i still procedded to go down maybe once or twice a week, meet up and stuff and always led onto sex !! durrrrrrr
lol
but still even after a nice day she was adament she didnt want anything between us!..
about 2 weeks ago now, it was out 16 month anniversary, (we used to do something every month like go for a meal or whatever) so we went to the beach and stuff.. was their until bout 11pm and it was brill, had this little 2 man tent so you can only imagine the fun as well lol..
anyway ended the night giving her a letter i had wrote, not very long but just said how much i cared n missed her etc... and then i left her 2 it !! (b4 we went though she invited me in hers, and i was really shocked to still see teddies and photos of us in her room)
anyway about a week later we spoke on the phone after no real contact, she said she missed me like mad but still didnt want a relationship, she then asked if i had met anyone else since we split, which in the past i had denied...
i was hurting so thought, [Poor language removed] it ill tell her!! i hadnt done anything other than kiss a few girls but this was enough to break her heart as she never expected it from me !! especially after everything i was saying!! she hung up and for the next few days wouldnt speak to me..
anyway the next few days came pure abuse to me, messages, texts, prank phone calls and stuff all of which i just decided to not retaliate too.. didnt even give her the time of day...
i was out wed/thurs/fri/sat night so it was easier for me, as it meant i was kind of accepting it all... however much it hurt..
anyway sat come and at lunch time i got a text saying "are u seeing someone else?" i didnt reply again, then at night she must have rang about 40 times and even her made did as well.. trying to get in touch with me... she even rang my mates phone!!
i text her back about 2 am saying wat do u want and stuff.. and she was like. i just want to talk, im so missing u and stuff !!! i was like, u want a shag... sorry im busy !!!
anyway i got home about 5am and spoke to her on the phone until about 9 am then a few more hours after lunch..
she was crying her eyes out and basically said, the who 7 weeks apart she had realised she wanted me , but because she is stubborn she couldnt make up the mind and basically was trying to hurt me as it seemed the right thing to do to help her to move on
we met up yday and talked for a while... we both took responsibilities for stuff we had done in the past, she really did take a lot of it though and admitted the way she had been was wrong !!!
and then we had the most wonderful day i have probably had in months !!!.. it just felt right with her, loads of effort, loads of affection and just everything seemed brilliant..
we got everything out in the open, completely honest and stuff and it was brilliant, i know it was all genuine because she even got her mum involved etc and that wouldnt have happened otherwise if it was another game and stuff !!
anyway we have decided to give it another go, 100% a fresh... im still walking on egg shells a little more for my piece of mind because of the hurt and stuff over the past weeks... but that will take time to get rid of...
i just dont want to jump in feet first, and get hurt so playing in cool... as is she... but we both seem like we cant wait to see each other again
anyway... i know their is going to be a lot of negativity probably flying around in this topic again, saying im a **** and what not... but honestly... it does seem different..
every time i met her, it was brill... but something wasnt their...she wouldnt let her self go etc... now she has !!!
so i hope.... all goes well between us... and i owe you all some drinks for the advice!!!... and hope everyone can see that sometimes people need time and space to become stronger and realise !!!
like i said , many pages ago...i always thought their was something special between us, i just couldnt understand why it had all happened like this :S
anyway sorry for the big essay... just explaining lol...
now for the drinks , smiles and lots of good sex
its been a few weeks since i have said anything etc... but hey...
well even after all the advise and stuff i still procedded to go down maybe once or twice a week, meet up and stuff and always led onto sex !! durrrrrrr
lol
but still even after a nice day she was adament she didnt want anything between us!..
about 2 weeks ago now, it was out 16 month anniversary, (we used to do something every month like go for a meal or whatever) so we went to the beach and stuff.. was their until bout 11pm and it was brill, had this little 2 man tent so you can only imagine the fun as well lol..
anyway ended the night giving her a letter i had wrote, not very long but just said how much i cared n missed her etc... and then i left her 2 it !! (b4 we went though she invited me in hers, and i was really shocked to still see teddies and photos of us in her room)
anyway about a week later we spoke on the phone after no real contact, she said she missed me like mad but still didnt want a relationship, she then asked if i had met anyone else since we split, which in the past i had denied...
i was hurting so thought, [Poor language removed] it ill tell her!! i hadnt done anything other than kiss a few girls but this was enough to break her heart as she never expected it from me !! especially after everything i was saying!! she hung up and for the next few days wouldnt speak to me..
anyway the next few days came pure abuse to me, messages, texts, prank phone calls and stuff all of which i just decided to not retaliate too.. didnt even give her the time of day...
i was out wed/thurs/fri/sat night so it was easier for me, as it meant i was kind of accepting it all... however much it hurt..
anyway sat come and at lunch time i got a text saying "are u seeing someone else?" i didnt reply again, then at night she must have rang about 40 times and even her made did as well.. trying to get in touch with me... she even rang my mates phone!!
i text her back about 2 am saying wat do u want and stuff.. and she was like. i just want to talk, im so missing u and stuff !!! i was like, u want a shag... sorry im busy !!!
anyway i got home about 5am and spoke to her on the phone until about 9 am then a few more hours after lunch..
she was crying her eyes out and basically said, the who 7 weeks apart she had realised she wanted me , but because she is stubborn she couldnt make up the mind and basically was trying to hurt me as it seemed the right thing to do to help her to move on
we met up yday and talked for a while... we both took responsibilities for stuff we had done in the past, she really did take a lot of it though and admitted the way she had been was wrong !!!
and then we had the most wonderful day i have probably had in months !!!.. it just felt right with her, loads of effort, loads of affection and just everything seemed brilliant..
we got everything out in the open, completely honest and stuff and it was brilliant, i know it was all genuine because she even got her mum involved etc and that wouldnt have happened otherwise if it was another game and stuff !!
anyway we have decided to give it another go, 100% a fresh... im still walking on egg shells a little more for my piece of mind because of the hurt and stuff over the past weeks... but that will take time to get rid of...
i just dont want to jump in feet first, and get hurt so playing in cool... as is she... but we both seem like we cant wait to see each other again
anyway... i know their is going to be a lot of negativity probably flying around in this topic again, saying im a **** and what not... but honestly... it does seem different..
every time i met her, it was brill... but something wasnt their...she wouldnt let her self go etc... now she has !!!
so i hope.... all goes well between us... and i owe you all some drinks for the advice!!!... and hope everyone can see that sometimes people need time and space to become stronger and realise !!!
like i said , many pages ago...i always thought their was something special between us, i just couldnt understand why it had all happened like this :S
anyway sorry for the big essay... just explaining lol...
now for the drinks , smiles and lots of good sex
Well done John. Am not going to read the rest and just assume you jibbed her off and are now shagging her best mate.
Shes been caught out playing the 'on top' game.
You have the reigns now, keep a tight grip on them and flog her ocassionally when she gets too confident.
Still get caught staring at her best mate's charms for added effect.
You have the reigns now, keep a tight grip on them and flog her ocassionally when she gets too confident.
Still get caught staring at her best mate's charms for added effect.
jon_efc
Player Valuation: £8m
i agree to an extent chico.... but im not gonna be a shithouse...
just not going to be a walkover either any more !!! just play it a bit more even and stuff !!
i used to do a lot of stuff at the click of a finger, now i know that aint healthy.. so iv learnt a lot !!
just not going to be a walkover either any more !!! just play it a bit more even and stuff !!
i used to do a lot of stuff at the click of a finger, now i know that aint healthy.. so iv learnt a lot !!
You are the skipper now.
Never, ever, forget that she treated you like [Poor language removed] to boost her flagging ego.
You never want to marry her, you've learned that I hope. Instead you want regular filth and ego boosting.
If you do one thing only, make sure that you prolong her agony. Ebb away any last remaining bit of self confidence she has.
Good work, Agent Jon.
Never, ever, forget that she treated you like [Poor language removed] to boost her flagging ego.
You never want to marry her, you've learned that I hope. Instead you want regular filth and ego boosting.
If you do one thing only, make sure that you prolong her agony. Ebb away any last remaining bit of self confidence she has.
Good work, Agent Jon.
As chico has said- you have the reigns. Use them. She will do stuff with you now that you wouldnt be able to get away with before. Use it, it wont last long.
Get her to dress up as a little devil and abuse her like you've always wanted to. You know what I mean.
Get her to dress up as a little devil and abuse her like you've always wanted to. You know what I mean.
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