Infidelity

Would you do strange if afforded the perfect opportunity?

  • Defo

    Votes: 23 21.5%

  • No chance

    Votes: 59 55.1%

  • How many pints have I had?

    Votes: 25 23.4%
  • Total voters
    107
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bizzaro said:
Being unattached. Yes.

But then again the poll doesn't match the thread title.
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Do you remember the story that lid told about the girl next door to him who he used to watch through the kitchen window ? I think h was fapping to her by his sink ? ... Can't remember the ld who posted it now though.
 
Allezfan said:
Less in this case means that like 45% of women cheat rather than 55% of men.

Still massively widespread but every survey I've seen says cheating is slightly more common in men.

I mean it's not a significant difference, it's not like 5% of women cheat and 90% of men do. But 'less' seems accurate.
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It's like 57% to 54% in favor of men who've admitted cheating in polling. It's statistically insignificant. The gap used to be wider but it's narrowing, and I wouldn't be at all surprised to see woman on top (pun defo intended) very soon.

Women are better cheaters too. They can firewall that stuff a lot better than guys.
 

johnnydawg68 said:
It's like 57% to 54% in favor of men who've admitted cheating in polling. It's statistically insignificant. The gap used to be wider but it's narrowing, and I wouldn't be at all surprised to see woman on top (pun defo intended) very soon.

Women are better cheaters too. They can firewall that stuff a lot better than guys.
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In your expert opinion JD, what are the biggest reasons that women cheat do you think? And how do these differ from blokes.
 
CahillsCornerFlag said:
In your expert opinion JD, what are the biggest reasons that women cheat do you think? And how do these differ from blokes.
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Women cheat because they're unhappy mostly, sex is the medium for them to feel desired and valuable again. It's funny most women spend their whole lives dreaming of getting married and a lot of guys spend a lot of time dreading giving up their freedom. Often what happens is men find out after getting married that they actually like it, and women are disappointed. The expectations were completely different going in.

Also people stop trying. Men spend their whole lives chasing women so when they get one, they consciously or subconsciously think "right, prey caught, time to relax and enjoy". MISTAKE. Women are momentum fiends. When the relationships stops "going" anywhere they have all sorts of signals that start to go off telling them something is wrong.

So all the stories and long winded conversations you had with your bird when you were dating that you endured because you wanted something from her, now seem pointless and boring. And you act like it towards her and she gets resentful.

Bottom line women cheat because they have come to resent their spouses, because they stop trying to be romantic, even in small ways, and because they've stopped trying to fall in love with them over and over. People change. The person you married at 21 or 25 or even 35 is not the person they are going to be in the future. If one of you is growing and the other one is perfectly happen to freeze time at the instant they got married, you're in big trouble. Goes for both men and women. You have to be willing to keep falling in love over and over again over the course of a lifetime.

Remember guys, your wife is a woman first before she's a mother or wife. Remind her as often as you can of that fact and don't consign her to wife/mother status all the time.
 
SerenityNigh said:
Steak and waffles?
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johnnydawg68 said:
Remember guys, your wife is a woman first before she's a mother or wife. Remind her as often as you can of that fact and don't consign her to wife/mother status all the time.
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This is so true, just because typically the wife is the primary carer of the family and home she ceases to be a woman? Do men cease to be men because they're typical role is that of provider?

Alignment of personal interests is so important in a relationship, love is symbiotic not parasitic. If you put nothing into the relationship and just take out then the host dies as does the parasite.

JD, you know this, how come you're not settled down? xx
 

mrs the esk said:
This is so true, just because typically the wife is the primary carer of the family and home she ceases to be a woman? Do men cease to be men because they're typical role is that of provider?

Alignment of personal interests is so important in a relationship, love is symbiotic not parasitic. If you put nothing into the relationship and just take out then the host dies as does the parasite.

JD, you know this, how come you're not settled down? xx
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Beat me to it, I couldn't have put it better.

We shouldn't forget that the wife is a mother to a children and a wife ( or partner, semantics ) , but if you forget what attracted you in the first place then you'll turn into one of those couples who are either playing away from home out of boredom, or are staying together because they're scared of the alternative.

It's not quite as simple as that, because, even though the relationship isn't what it was, or is basically non-existent, some people stay together for very good reasons, bringing up a family together being the main reason. Still sad to see though.
 
Opportunity came last week on a lads trip to Dublin. She seemed nice and was fairly hot - Irish accent too.

Passed her on to my mate, she refused to take him home because her Dad would kill her - and him.

We asked how old she was and it turned out she was eighteen.

Swerved that one nicely. Told Mrs. Gloves and she thinks I'm a saint!
 
Who cares about sex though, really?

How different is it from shaking hands with someone? Or hugging them after an emotional event - like watching E.T. or seeing a dead squirrel?

Sex really isn't anything special.

An affair is totally different, some people can't separate the two. Having some random tranny suck you off is totally different from illicit meetings in McDonald's carpark or a quick fingering in a Travel Lodge.
 
SerenityNigh said:
Not to pick on you Tex, because many have shared this sentiment, but I don't agree in the slightest. Aside from the fact that these comments are degrading, it suggests that if he (Newman) found a better steak somewhere else, he'd be morally obligated to have that for lunch. I understand that he may consider her the apple of his eye, and so he should, but this is an utterly crass (and immoral) way to compliment her. I have much more respect for men that are faithful to their "hamburgers" than those who delude themselves that they've got "the best steak in the world waiting for me at home."

cf. @Allezfan's and @chicoazul's previous comments.
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I was just passing it along.

The point he was trying to make was that he was satisfied with his marriage and his wife and didn't feel the need to go outside of his marriage for any reason at all.

It also does not suggest he would have gone outside of his marriage at all in the comment and I don't see where you infer that.

It was an off the cuff remark in an interview and he answered the question. It sounds like you would have preferred him to say, "...and the reason I don't cheat on my wife is because she's the best thing that ever happened to me and I love her too much to ever hurt her like that."

I think you're a bit upset about nothing here.
 
I think this thread shows that people's online persona can differ quite some way from their actual one. Perhaps in an online community people only need to back their thoughts with words. In real life they must be backed with actions which require far more self control, subtsance and restrsaint.
 

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