Agreed, but some determine how high those odds are stacked against you. If you really want to give yourself the best possible odds of succedding, move abroad.
And Reidy, behave lad - instead of going on your jollies for seven years you should have got your head into studying. Don't blame Thatcher for your seven year bender.
*waits - this is going to be brilliant lads. reidy is worse than old Ghost and apple.*
far from being on my jollies mate, working 14 straight 12 hour shifts in holland, did that for about a year.
you have to work to survive, when you emigrate you are often putting everything you have into it and start again from scratch, then you end up having to work the shifts that nobody else wants cos you are new,they still have unemployment in these places so you aren't alone in looking for a job, we both worked 12 hour nights on a crap wage for the 1st year.
i got a job that tbh i'm amazed i got, the hand of fate waved my way really and as well as being as well paid as i could get over there, there was plenty of overtime which they needed me to do, towards the end of the year my manager said that his boss had said to stop my o.t. for a spell so that i wouldn't earn more than him, he wasn't arsed if i did cos he knew how many hours i was putting in. twas a good job, i didn't arse around and i'm certain it would've led to better things, although with plenty of cash i was happy as i was.
again after we came back it was start from scratch with no money left due to havin' to spend it all, again it was a case of having to work daft shifts to get back on our feet. it's the only way you can earn a decent wage in engineering these days, plus employers pay crap knowing that you can get tax credits to boost your income, which they used to do with the old system as well.
even these days, if the phone rings tonight i have to go to work, no matter what time it is.
from what i've seen it's the 4 years at uni that was jollies.
i still get election papers arriving from new zealand with a postal voting form, i don't vote though as it's nothing to do with me unless i decided to go back. i voted just before i left, with the decision based on who would help the people i knew the most.