Whether or not you consider fourth anything to celebrate or not I think the odds of us getting fourth are lower than the odds of a random team above us in the league right now winning something (Cup or league). Our "500% greater appreciation" for winning something is purely theoretical ... we aren't going to win anything ... so why does it matter if we'd "appreciate it more" or not?
I don't enjoy beating City or a decent (but ultimately failing) Cup run more than they enjoy winning something (even if they half expected to win something). While we may have less to feel miserable about after another year of failure I'd rather go with a chance of winning (more happiness) than less painful failure.
Man City's expectations have gotten to the point where 2nd in the league and out of the Champions League is considered a failure. I understand that thinking from my other sporting interests, but it's a little sad don't you think?
It is sad. However City fans lost their minds. Perhaps in part because they'd never been there before, perhaps in part to get at ManU finally ... whatever happened to them I would hope wouldn't happen to us. Maybe I'm being optimistic there.
ANYWAY ... to get to your point I don't think it HAS to be that way. While I'm aware that your daily reality changes your perceptions it is still possible to retain a sense of perspective. I was just thinking last night how my basement with a big TV, PS3 and a magic box which can download almost any movie, TV show or porno ever made would make the 10 year old me faint with joy. I've had it for a while, it's normal for me, yet it's possible to appreciate what you have ... even if most people tend not to do that. Believe it or not I know some Chelsea and ManU fans who do appreciate it -- I think it helps if you follow other sports closely (and don't follow a top team in those sports so you know what it's like to not be one of the top teams).
I've supported teams in US sports which won things but never a team which "expects to win things" ... I think that would be fun. I had a glimpse of it once, for one brief fleeting moment, and it was truly magnificent. Then the owners purchased Man U, the team collapsed epically and has been an utter failure ever since. It doesn't seem better now.
I mean if we finished 4th, we'd be giving each other reach arounds all day long. 2nd? The Romans wouldn't have had nothing on us. Is there any harm to taking pleasure from smaller victories and joys?
Never thought I'd want to finish fourth more than I already did.
I don't really see it as appreciating the victories ... I find it harder to deal with the absence of hope. We're not that far off fourth and yet in that thread about finishing fourth a lot of people will tell anyone who'll listen that it's all over and we won't get fifth ... let alone fourth.
Assuming no takeover ... do we have a 1% chance of winning the league? I don't think we do. 0.1%?
"Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things and no good thing ever dies."
Hope stays alive in prison ... not in Premier League football. I'd rather deal with the pain of coming close than the numb feeling that we are just making up the numbers with no hope of winning anything (but the odd victory against Man City along the way to feel good about before they buy another one of our players).