abelard
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My dad left school with no qualifications and worked his way up from being a tea lad to being an Engineer, while balancing several young kids and a wife.
He made it clear to all of us that we should prioritise our education and thank goodness he did.
I worked my arse off through school to make sure I did well, even growing up in an area that wasn't exactly the best, and despite not getting real support from people with enough knowledge to help me understand what my actual options were, then left home and move to the other side of the country. Got a job, worked for a year, decided on my own that I was going to go to uni and moved even further afield. Worked two jobs while going to uni full time, without a "grant", got in lots of debt despite it. Met the missus, and worked 40 hours a week in my last year at uni while planning and paying for my own wedding and completing my dissertation.
Moved to the other side of the world, worked somewhere between 40 and 60 hours a week in my 'day job' and picked up jobs here and there outside of work hours when I could. Saved up about 70% of our income (not our disposable income, our actual income) for 5 years before we were able to jump on the property ladder.
I don't think I had it "easy" and despite being a millennial, I've not thought I should be entitled to everything because "old people". The difference between me and someone of a baby boomer generation I'd say is that I know that despite "working hard" a lot of what I got because of that was significantly down to being a white male who speaks English natively.
I think many in this thread are confusing "millennials" with "tits".
fair enough mate. my own experience seems fairly similar.
but, no matter how admirable it might be when it happens, i don't think people should have to go into debt, despite also working 40 hours a week, to be able to complete their education.
nor should they have to move all over the world and work 60 hours a week (plus additional part-time jobs) for five years just to be able to afford a basic house.
things were rarely like this for our parents, but it's expected now.
this is the result of self-serving political decision-making and ideology, and our generation is so far mostly useless, politically. but taking politics more seriously, as opposed to accepting expectations that we all behave like capitalist stakhanovites, or like the horse from animal farm, is the only way to improve things, for us and especially for our children - increasingly, another now "luxury" indulgence that we can't really afford but are mocked for not contributing.
what really gets my teeth a gnashin' are all these articles moaning about how boring we've all apparently become, or how we don't buy things or enjoy life anymore, from cohorts bestowed with everything by the state or their parents, and whose relative profligacy our imposed austerity will increasingly have to sustain:
https://www.nytimes.com/2015/09/17/fashion/death-of-the-party.html
http://nypost.com/2016/06/08/shocking-study-reveals-millennials-dont-like-doing-stuff/
https://www.theguardian.com/comment...in-and-relax-why-millennials-dont-go-clubbing
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2016/apr/21/millennials-booze-free-events-juice-crawl-new-york
https://timeline.com/millennials-boring-gen-x-slackers-9233d0d4341c
oh well... time for this snowflake to put the phone down, i suppose