and the wind up you referred to was a reply what was to be honest a really offensive remark about refugees that my gut feeling was to be a lot nastier about. in context you asking for a clear response would amount to someone showing you a pic of a lad in an Everton scarf walking past a homeless guy and saying all our fans hate the homeless. then asking you to prove otherwise
Really offensive?
You, as a refugee, were offended? Or are you being offended
for the refugees?
I'll tell you what I found offensive.
I found that when that man threw his wife and baby to the train tracks, that was offensive.
I found that when police came along to a train to offer the refugees food and water, and the refugees threw them away, that was offensive.
I found that when a refugee was interviewed on that very train and he said "we have no food or water and there are pregnant women", thus lying, that was offensive.
As for the rest of your post... what?