Ashtonian
Banned on request
I have no problem with her and her friends doing things together, I even bought her tickets for a concert and one for her mate as well as a christmas present. She asked why I didn't want to go to which I said it will be nice to spend time with your friend. She also has a night out next week which I don't mind.
But it would be nice if we can have a holiday on our own, most couples get to do that so why can't we? It would be nice to do it rather than hear her talk about stories from previous holidays with exes or friends and here's me getting ready to go out at 7pm so we can go the kids club.
Think that is the top and bottom of it, your hang up is her kid which if you aren't prepared to play the happy family role now then it would be no point in believing you wouod want to years down the line. the factor here is that you aren't her main attention, and will never be for many years. Do you want to spend years waiting or do you want to be the focus now?
And for the love of God don't get her pregnant, it will trap you in a emotion relationship which will be 10x worse as you will have one kid who you are dad to and the other who you have to play dad to which is harder than it might sound.









