Infidelity

Would you do strange if afforded the perfect opportunity?

  • Defo

    Votes: 23 21.5%

  • No chance

    Votes: 59 55.1%

  • How many pints have I had?

    Votes: 25 23.4%
  • Total voters
    107
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Maybe you guys n gals can help me on this, i have never cheated but there is one or two girls i would drop everything for, if the chance ever arises, at the same time i know that once i get it then maybe i will realise that the thrill of the chase is better than the capture (jeez that sounds wrong). I may be a little more level headed when it comes to marriage though, why spend a fortune of money and years of time to marry soembody you cant be arsed with ? Also if you have a decent woman who happens to be the mother of your children then at least have the respect to keep it in your pants unless its with her, after all she gave her body for your children ! Preach brother !!!
 

chicoazul said:
You've all been there at least once in your life, you cads.

tips hat at @Durham Toffee*

As we get older though I've noticed that it's absolute widespread. I mean everyone was getting fingered all over the show when we were late teens and early twenties but then it dies down as people get married and have kids for a bit. But by mid late thirties it would seem the vast majority of lids in particularly are gasping for a bit of strange.

I believe that over 85% of males given the chance of infidelity and absolutely no chance of comeback would take that opportunity.

It's less for girls but they have their moments too like.

What do you think?

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Fairly obvious what sparked this off, and it's nothing to do with @Durham Toffee
You've strayed recently havn't you mate and felt the need to know you're not alone ?
 

chicoazul said:
Absolutely not sir, as if any right minded female would want to throw the lips on me.
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You have a certain rogueish charm about you though. I suspect you'll have had the odd offer now and then

Anyway, the bearded pedant has nailed it with the bolded bit below. If we feel we have a lot to lose then we resist. As a species are we truly monogamous ? Plainly the divorce stats say that we're not as monogamous as we'd like to think we are.

Allezfan said:
Yeah, I've been mostly just making jokes but this is my basic opinion.

I think everybody in the world feels the desire to cheat but about half of us don't. And that's just because we decide that what we stand to lose outweighs what we stand to gain.

It's no more remarkable than making the decision to go to work in order to get money, going to the dentist in order to stay healthy or not eating that 12th cake in order to stay thin.

People ignore the short term gain of not going into work and staying in bed in favour of the long term gain of not getting fired, every day. Not cheating is no different and no more remarkable and worthy of praise than that.
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I've been going out with a girl for 5 years.

I have done the dirt with two different birds. Mainly cause I found myself in a situation where I could, the girl was fit and I was pretty sure it'd never follow me home.
Doesn't mean I don't really like my girlfriend though.
 
canuckblue said:
As some of you on here might recall, my wife died of cancer in March 2007 (the day AJ scored the late winner vs. Arsenal). She'd been ill for a little over a year before she passed and early menopause and, sadly, a bout with alcoholism robbed her of her libido far before then. Yet not once did I ever think of leaving or even getting a bit on the side. The reason was the promise I made on our wedding day -- you know, for better or worse, in sickness or in health -- and in this day of deteriorating personal ethics, when it seems fewer are taking personal responsibility for their actions, I still feel my word is my bond and how you back up your words is what defines you as a person.
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Well said mate, I totally agree with every word you said.
 


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