I wont back another referendum. It'd pointless and only have us continue to go around in circles forever. If somebody gets elected and choses to revoke article 50 I'll live with that but a second referendum will change noting. Should remain win the leave side will obviously demand a third refendum. What is the point in a second refendum when we haven't even upheld the results of the first one! They don't mean anything, we've been told over and over hiw they aren't legally binding so why would a second advisory referendum change anything.
One of the saddest parts in all of this is how they have managed to disenfranchise people like you. It's not that democracy has failed so much in trying to block leaving, it's just the fact they allowed people a vote on a question that had no real viable solution.
From the start there has only ever been 3 different ways to deliver it:
- Put a hard border between NI and the Republic. In almost any other situation this would work, we are not talking millions of people crossing daily, goods will be able to be checked and moved through quickly. But in this situation there will be violence. In a matter of weeks you go from having a nice friendly 'normal looking' border to a military one and then the watchtowers will go up and the terrorist attacks will likely happen on both sides of the Irish Sea. Not to mention it breaks the GFA.
- Allow NI to stay effectively in the EU and have the border checks between GB and NI. The DUP won't go for it but if you weren't relying on them to get it through, it is probably the most sensible solution. It could lead to unification eventually. However there is one big spanner in the works, Scotland. They will see NI still in the EU and they will want the same, so you would have solved the Irish border problem but then made it essential to have a border on this island. You will also lose 5.5 million from the buying power of any future trade deals and a good chunk of the UK's natural resources.
- Give up trying to curtail freedom of movement and stay in the single market. The problem with this is that leavers will not see that as brexit and instead of taking back power we would have given away our say from inside the EU. So you may has well just revoke article 50 if you choose this option.
We just need to show leavers the futility of it all. Another referendum can work, but it cannot be advisory this time and it will lead to one of the three options implemented above (presumably the second one) if no deal is chosen. It would be crap but if a majority voted for it then least they can't say they weren't warned.