Discussion & help on depression & mental health related issues

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My 21 year relationship came crashing down about 2 weeks ago, I've had a variety of emotions, thought I'd just top myself and be done with it at first, then thought I might move away to where most of my family now are, but that'd mean being 4 hours away from the kids so can't do that.

I'm a bit lost if I'm honest, it's not what i expected or wanted but seemingly she appears to have switched off all feelings and gone into this weird 'let's be grown up and all overly friendly' mode, I don't really know why I'm airing it on here, my heads a bit battered.

Sorry to hear that mate.

I’m no expert, but the way you’re describing her behaviour doesn’t sound right and sounds like she may be unwell ?

Could it be she’s started the menopause ?

I just know that when my missus started, some of her behaviour was just off the scale, to the point of being quite worrying.